Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Ok so i have a really personal question i need advice?

Im 16 years old. 3 months ago i had a threesome with two boys i know from my neighborhood. They are brothers. Well i have been feeling really sick lately and so i took 3 home pregnancy tests yesterday and they are all positive. I had my period before i had sex with them and i know one of them is the father. But i dont know what to do. I have kind of a bad rep at school, and my parents are really strict. Going to them is not an option. I told the boys about it and they both say because they know my rep they dont believe me, and it could be anyones, which i know isnt true because i had my period 2 weeks before i slept with them. I think i want to keep the baby, but the worst part is that i had sex with these two other guys over the course of the past 2 months and its rumored that one of them has herpes,and i have been having some weird symptoms down there so im afraid for my baby, but i do not have money or a car so i can go to the dr. What do u think i should do?Ok so i have a really personal question i need advice?
First take your little hot @ss self to the Women's care center so they can check you out. They will help you off for next to nothing or no charge at all. They will help you with support with the baby and getting your own life together. If not the women's care center, talk to your school social worker, she/he should have some resources. Next, you need to take a good look at what you little hot self is doing and realize you need to make better choice. Life is not about much sex you can have a with how many people you can get it from. It is time to grow up hunni and do what is best for that baby of yours. Your baby does not want a hoochi as a mama! Good luck!Ok so i have a really personal question i need advice?
get on medicaid, go to the dr get tested. keep your legs closed that was a very trampy thing to do not trying to be rude and get a paternity test when the baby is born if your keeping it.


and why the hell didnt you make them use a condom, one of them was rumored to have an std...very irresponsible and completely stupid.
I'm not sure how strict your parents are if you've been sleeping around the neighborhood...but anyway...it doesn't sound liek you're ready for the baby. Contact a church and ask about adoption. A lot of times, the adoption agencies can pay for your medical care %26amp; transportation.
if you have no money for the doctor, how will you provide for this baby ?? your parents?? if so, they diserve to be told. they will find out sooner or later anyways. just don't mention the 3some ;)
What I would do first is go to your parents especially if you are going to keep the baby. They will find out sooner or later anyways because of your growing belly. To me it sounds like you are not ready for a baby, and with no money and obviously no support from the ';father, or fathers'; then I would say to put it up for adoption, you wouldn't believe the great families out there that are really really wanting a baby and can't and wait forever to have one but never get one because God didn't bless them with the reproductive systems that they need to produce, but he did bless you and if you are not ready for this baby then give it to someone that is. If you do decide to keep the baby then you will have to tell your parents, but what are you going to do about school and an income for that baby? All I'm saying is to make the right decision for you and that baby.
First of all, close your legs for the rest of your teenage-hood. There is a reason why your parents are so strict on you. They care about you (they want the best for you), unlike guys who sleep with 16 year old girls and get them pregnant, when they had a whole future ahead of them.





Go to the doctor, ask him what you should do and stop hanging around guys who don't care about you and hang around people who do. Maybe tell your parents, because your parents know what's best for you. That's what you should do.
You need to talk to someone to get some answers and help. By 3 months you need to see a dr for your health and your baby's health. If you feel like you cannot tell your parents then you could try talking to a school counselor or a representative from Planned Parenthood. Maybe there is someone else in your family or another adult that you could go to? Planned Parenthood charges for services on a sliding scale so that people who need help can afford it. Check around in the phonebook and online as well for other resources in your area.


Remember that especially if you want to keep this baby you will not be able to hide it from your family forever. If you are keeping the child then they will have to know about it at some point. If you feel that you are responsible enough to keep the baby then you should be responsible enough to get medical attention for yourself and the baby. Having herpes during pregnancy can be a very serious issue. If you think this may be the case a dr can give you more information and may be able to help you not to transmit the disease to your child during birth.


Wishing you the best of luck.

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