WHAT CONDITIONS ARE ACCEPTABLE, IF ANY ??How do you find the strength to leave a man/woman that cheated on you? Words of advice,quotes,personal stories
ther is not excuse for cheating just like there are no conditions. cheating is cheating, period!
a quote from me to you:
get some self esteem, stop making excuses, be a strong woman or your going to get walked on for the rest of your life.How do you find the strength to leave a man/woman that cheated on you? Words of advice,quotes,personal stories
I was with my ex for 4 years, we had 2 kids together....he was very abusive in every way possible. He had the nerve to cut me down every day, and call me a whore. Accusing me of cheating on him, when in reality, he's the one who was cheating on me. I never even left the house other than to work. I finally realized that the reason why i was staying (for the kids) was just going to hurt them in the long run, and i couldn't live my life feeling like i was nothing any more. I feel that if the other person is completely honest with you and tells you it happened without you having to hear it from someone else then i would try to work something out. Once a cheater, always a cheater is NOT always true. And if you love this person, and they love you then you will come to a compromise. Maybe make it so you can hang out with him/her and their friends more, or whatever it takes in order to gain that trust back. I live by this quote:
';THE ONLY MAN WORTH YOUR TEARS WON'T MAKE YOU CRY IN THE FIRST PLACE.';
And i don't mean little things that make me cry, im a girl, i cry a lot. I mean things that make you cry every night just because of one thing that he did to you. Something that you have to live with for the rest of your life.
I know what it feels like to be cheated on, it makes you feel like you are nothing, like there is someone better than you. It sucks. But eventually you have to put your differences aside and realize that if he/she didn't love you, then she would have left you for that other person instead of letting you know what happened. They would have kept it a secret.
If they cheated then they must not care about you. Why stay with someone who doesn't care about you? As hard as it is just go your own way and consider it their loss. No matter what they say they cheated and if they did it once they'll likely do it again.
In very real terms cheating is a breach of trust, respect, and harmony. Unfortunately, you have to see it like this - If he/she is willing to do this to you now how do you really know he/she will not do it again? If and when you can truthfully answer that question you should have the answer to you original question.
Saturday, July 31, 2010
I need some advice on finding a personal investors for a 5th & 6th grade math video project?
Start with the parents and then maybe the local papers/news stations. Generally with that kind of buzz, you'll get more than enough investors, especially when it involves kids.
Good luck!I need some advice on finding a personal investors for a 5th %26amp; 6th grade math video project?
I am lost as how a math project needs an investor and what video is about. look in phone book under property management and call around.
Good luck!I need some advice on finding a personal investors for a 5th %26amp; 6th grade math video project?
I am lost as how a math project needs an investor and what video is about. look in phone book under property management and call around.
I need of tips or advice anything that helped from personal experience?
I'm trying to better myself...I used to be the type of person who was very trusting, wasn't clingy, wasn't depressed about much of anything, didn't hurt myself, cried but not often about petty things, and didn't get angry easy, my jealousy was under some control although I know I have always been a somewhat jealous person. since the passing of my mother two years ago and the string of bad relationships it would seem with time i started doing all of the above mentioned more often than normal. out of say a month i'm only really happy about 5 days...if i get too upset i get very sick, and I cut myself...I don't trust anyone or anything. to me there is always a motive behind everything. I can't take compliments and I am overly jealous...to the point I do sneaky things to spy on my now ex, all of these issues pushed us apart, and now when it is seemingly too late I regret it, I am not happy with what I have become and I would like to change. tips, personal experience, advice all will doI need of tips or advice anything that helped from personal experience?
from you bad experience losing your mom and the hurt from that and picking a bunch of cheaters . sounds like you have had toooo many life experiences in to short of time. you know dont give up there are decent guys out there and one will come for you and maybe this last one was a decent guy. and i think you do need to get in there and have some counciling a therapist can really do alot of good i know this for a fact. so just make an appointment with one and see how you like it i think it will help you alot.ive been through some horrible things in my life so many and so hurtful i had to seek out some help. and they really helped me and there is nothing to be afraid of absolutely nothing. so dont be afraid just give it a try i think you will find it will really help you get back the person you really are. and by the way im so sorry all this terrible stuff has happened to you but you'll be alright it may seem to you that you cant take it but you can life has a funny way of evening itself out exspecially when you are the type of person that will fight for what you want. and i think you want to get better.I need of tips or advice anything that helped from personal experience?
You need professional help to deal with depression, get it now, because you will only sink deeper. Perhaps you are not a nutcase as yet, but Yahoo Answers wil not help you one bit with those issues. Read the answers for support, but you need help form a professional who can prescribe pills, and who knows what he's doing. (They may even prescribe pot, go for it!)
Wow you sound like u were a great person just hurting from your mom's death. You'll be that again just change the people in your life cut them out - those who arent positive influences or make you feel like you need to be jealous etc.
Sorry about the cutting talk to some one about it. It will help.
Ooooh, honey that's terrible. I sincerely feel terrible at the thought of what you've been through. Sounds like another one of those bad things happen to good people.You're a good person. See a therapist and they'll help you move on. The world needs more good people like you. Please don't waste it. :')
Sweetie, from everything you've written, I'd say you need to talk to a professional to see if you can't get your life back on track. From what I read, most of this started at the loss of your mom...that's a hard loss to face and a lot of us don't handle it well at all. I'm sure that if you can't afford a therapist, a trip to Social Services would be able to put you in touch with someone at either no or nominal cost to you. PLEASE, I urge you to seek some kind of professional therapy if you possibly can. God bless you and good luck to you.
from you bad experience losing your mom and the hurt from that and picking a bunch of cheaters . sounds like you have had toooo many life experiences in to short of time. you know dont give up there are decent guys out there and one will come for you and maybe this last one was a decent guy. and i think you do need to get in there and have some counciling a therapist can really do alot of good i know this for a fact. so just make an appointment with one and see how you like it i think it will help you alot.ive been through some horrible things in my life so many and so hurtful i had to seek out some help. and they really helped me and there is nothing to be afraid of absolutely nothing. so dont be afraid just give it a try i think you will find it will really help you get back the person you really are. and by the way im so sorry all this terrible stuff has happened to you but you'll be alright it may seem to you that you cant take it but you can life has a funny way of evening itself out exspecially when you are the type of person that will fight for what you want. and i think you want to get better.I need of tips or advice anything that helped from personal experience?
You need professional help to deal with depression, get it now, because you will only sink deeper. Perhaps you are not a nutcase as yet, but Yahoo Answers wil not help you one bit with those issues. Read the answers for support, but you need help form a professional who can prescribe pills, and who knows what he's doing. (They may even prescribe pot, go for it!)
Wow you sound like u were a great person just hurting from your mom's death. You'll be that again just change the people in your life cut them out - those who arent positive influences or make you feel like you need to be jealous etc.
Sorry about the cutting talk to some one about it. It will help.
Ooooh, honey that's terrible. I sincerely feel terrible at the thought of what you've been through. Sounds like another one of those bad things happen to good people.You're a good person. See a therapist and they'll help you move on. The world needs more good people like you. Please don't waste it. :')
Sweetie, from everything you've written, I'd say you need to talk to a professional to see if you can't get your life back on track. From what I read, most of this started at the loss of your mom...that's a hard loss to face and a lot of us don't handle it well at all. I'm sure that if you can't afford a therapist, a trip to Social Services would be able to put you in touch with someone at either no or nominal cost to you. PLEASE, I urge you to seek some kind of professional therapy if you possibly can. God bless you and good luck to you.
Health advice from professionals or personal experience.
Well I am a 42 year old male in pretty good shape, I live in Texas, I have no health insurance, I do not smoke or drink and I am wondering what type of full body exam do I need to put my mind at ease. I recently had mother in law become diagnosed with malignant brain tumor and it seems that I am always hearing about prostate cancer,clogged arteries, etc.,etc.,etc.
So does anyone have any advice for someone like me?
I would be grateful if you could give me price quotes if possible, along with what exams are needed.
Thanks in advance!Health advice from professionals or personal experience.
For cancer, read Kevin Trudeau's books, Natural Cures and More Natural Cures. Also, it includes preventions and cures for prostate cancer like saw palmetto, and fish oil for clogged arteries and preventing heart attack and stroke. Read those 2 books!
So does anyone have any advice for someone like me?
I would be grateful if you could give me price quotes if possible, along with what exams are needed.
Thanks in advance!Health advice from professionals or personal experience.
For cancer, read Kevin Trudeau's books, Natural Cures and More Natural Cures. Also, it includes preventions and cures for prostate cancer like saw palmetto, and fish oil for clogged arteries and preventing heart attack and stroke. Read those 2 books!
I need advice. Kinda personal girls only plz.?
I am getting ready to go on a float trip and my period is the same week. Any advice.I need advice. Kinda personal girls only plz.?
Tampons: Pearl regular or lite are easy glide and completely comfortable. No one will know that you're on your period, and comfort wise, neither will you.I need advice. Kinda personal girls only plz.?
Use tampons. No one will ever know but you and no accidents as long as you change.
tampons,summers eve and materials you can use to cleanse yourself everyday to be fresh and have no accidents.....pads are a choice but not the best...hope this answers your question!!!
you should just pack a lot of pads and stuff.
Tampons.
and try wearing a red swimsuit. They make ones with little skirts.
and most importantly, just relax and go with it. If something embarrassing happens shrug it off and say something like ';what can i say i am woman.'; or ';thanks for the advice';
good luck and enjoy.
Plug it up!! %26lt;lol%26gt; use a tampon.
Tampons
i would not go at all
that sucks use tampons u can cut the string but dont cut it to were u cant get it out.Change u r tampon so u wont leak.GOODLUCK and have fun!
U can go swimming,just have a dark towl near by for when u get out the water and then go get a pad on,and take a midol or any period medicine for cramps and so your not grouchy.but don't let your period get in the way!good luck!where a dark bathing suite bottom!just incase
isnt that the way it always goes, just when u dont need grandmal coming to town , she comes when you have palns, all i can tell you is dont wear white, if you use pads, make sure there good ones , try an use tampons, dont worry it want mess up your plans, have a good time . dont be stressing over this are it will make it worse for you, hope you have a great time,
Tampons.. I use pearl and they dont leak on me..
use a tampon
use tampons and buy feminine wipes summer eve's
use tampons
I'm assuming you are fairly young. Can you ask your mom, a friend's mom, aunt or other trusted adult?
You can use tampons. If you have a fairly light flow, use the junior, lite or regular size. Just make sure you change it every three or four hours during the day. Usually one and a mini pad are fine for the night.
There are instructions inside the box on the paper insert. Or search some of the female sites such as Tampax or Kotex for more information.
Enjoy the float trip
make sure u bring tampons
Tampons: Pearl regular or lite are easy glide and completely comfortable. No one will know that you're on your period, and comfort wise, neither will you.I need advice. Kinda personal girls only plz.?
Use tampons. No one will ever know but you and no accidents as long as you change.
tampons,summers eve and materials you can use to cleanse yourself everyday to be fresh and have no accidents.....pads are a choice but not the best...hope this answers your question!!!
you should just pack a lot of pads and stuff.
Tampons.
and try wearing a red swimsuit. They make ones with little skirts.
and most importantly, just relax and go with it. If something embarrassing happens shrug it off and say something like ';what can i say i am woman.'; or ';thanks for the advice';
good luck and enjoy.
Plug it up!! %26lt;lol%26gt; use a tampon.
Tampons
i would not go at all
that sucks use tampons u can cut the string but dont cut it to were u cant get it out.Change u r tampon so u wont leak.GOODLUCK and have fun!
U can go swimming,just have a dark towl near by for when u get out the water and then go get a pad on,and take a midol or any period medicine for cramps and so your not grouchy.but don't let your period get in the way!good luck!where a dark bathing suite bottom!just incase
isnt that the way it always goes, just when u dont need grandmal coming to town , she comes when you have palns, all i can tell you is dont wear white, if you use pads, make sure there good ones , try an use tampons, dont worry it want mess up your plans, have a good time . dont be stressing over this are it will make it worse for you, hope you have a great time,
Tampons.. I use pearl and they dont leak on me..
use a tampon
use tampons and buy feminine wipes summer eve's
use tampons
I'm assuming you are fairly young. Can you ask your mom, a friend's mom, aunt or other trusted adult?
You can use tampons. If you have a fairly light flow, use the junior, lite or regular size. Just make sure you change it every three or four hours during the day. Usually one and a mini pad are fine for the night.
There are instructions inside the box on the paper insert. Or search some of the female sites such as Tampax or Kotex for more information.
Enjoy the float trip
make sure u bring tampons
I am seeking advice on what personal finance & tax preparation software to use.?
I use Quickbooks for our finances (and put in everything at least once a week.) Sorry about tax prep. When I did it myself I used TurboTax and was very happy. Haven't used it in 3 years so I cannot tell you if it is still as good.
Even with Turbo Tax I had my CPA look over the last few years I filed. They found me another $700, which paid for the visit.
Hope this helps.I am seeking advice on what personal finance %26amp; tax preparation software to use.?
I presume that you are in the USA?
Microsoft Money has all the stuff you'll need, but you have to learn how to use them with discipline to have it work for you.
For taxes, consider Turbo Tax or Taxcut. Both are good.
Quicken is also OK for personal finance, and Quickbooks if you have a business.
Even with Turbo Tax I had my CPA look over the last few years I filed. They found me another $700, which paid for the visit.
Hope this helps.I am seeking advice on what personal finance %26amp; tax preparation software to use.?
I presume that you are in the USA?
Microsoft Money has all the stuff you'll need, but you have to learn how to use them with discipline to have it work for you.
For taxes, consider Turbo Tax or Taxcut. Both are good.
Quicken is also OK for personal finance, and Quickbooks if you have a business.
Any advice on a ReApplying Graduate Personal Statement?
I will be reapplying to a graduate program and really am not sure what I should write my personal statement on. I am currently taking classes in the program and enjoy them and would love to matriculate into this program. I feel like i have a heads up because I was not denied admission the first time aroung, I was just told to take a few classes and reapplyAny advice on a ReApplying Graduate Personal Statement?
The purpose of the statement of purpose / letter of intent is to convince the graduate admissions committee of each department to which you are applying that you are an excellent candidate for admission to THAT particular department.
Here's what you should include:
(And it does not matter in what order. Just make sure your narrative makes sense.)
Your academic interests, and how your academic background suits you for further study of these interests. Be as specific as you possibly can, making SURE to show your familiarity with current theory and method in your intended area of study!
Delineate your goals, too. (Do you intend to become a professor? a researcher? Do you want to work for an NGO or a nonprofit? Say so.)
If there are blemishes on your record, explain them. For example, if you were working 30 hours a week as an undergrad, this might help the committee understand a less-than-perfect GPA.
Be sure to include any information about you that cannot be found on your undergraduate transcripts (like awards, special projects you did, independent studies, work experience related to your field of study, etc.)
Articulate your reasons for choosing THIS particular program. Show familiarity with the faculty and their fields of specialization. Don't just list the faculty - specify with whom you'd like to work and why.
Mention your desire to be considered for teaching assistantships, research assistantships, or fellowships. But only briefly. Like once.
And for goodness sake, proofread. Statements/essays with spelling or grammatical errors go directly to the bottom of the pile.Any advice on a ReApplying Graduate Personal Statement?
You shouldn't ignore the fact you are reapplying in your essay, but try to twist it so that it portrays you in a good light. Say how it represents your commitment to or advanced knowledge in the field.
I hated writing personal statements. Good Luckhand soap
The purpose of the statement of purpose / letter of intent is to convince the graduate admissions committee of each department to which you are applying that you are an excellent candidate for admission to THAT particular department.
Here's what you should include:
(And it does not matter in what order. Just make sure your narrative makes sense.)
Your academic interests, and how your academic background suits you for further study of these interests. Be as specific as you possibly can, making SURE to show your familiarity with current theory and method in your intended area of study!
Delineate your goals, too. (Do you intend to become a professor? a researcher? Do you want to work for an NGO or a nonprofit? Say so.)
If there are blemishes on your record, explain them. For example, if you were working 30 hours a week as an undergrad, this might help the committee understand a less-than-perfect GPA.
Be sure to include any information about you that cannot be found on your undergraduate transcripts (like awards, special projects you did, independent studies, work experience related to your field of study, etc.)
Articulate your reasons for choosing THIS particular program. Show familiarity with the faculty and their fields of specialization. Don't just list the faculty - specify with whom you'd like to work and why.
Mention your desire to be considered for teaching assistantships, research assistantships, or fellowships. But only briefly. Like once.
And for goodness sake, proofread. Statements/essays with spelling or grammatical errors go directly to the bottom of the pile.Any advice on a ReApplying Graduate Personal Statement?
You shouldn't ignore the fact you are reapplying in your essay, but try to twist it so that it portrays you in a good light. Say how it represents your commitment to or advanced knowledge in the field.
I hated writing personal statements. Good Luck
Health advice from professionals or personal experience.
Well I am a 42 year old male in pretty good shape, I live in Texas, I have no health insurance, I do not smoke or drink and I am wondering what type of full body exam do I need to put my mind at ease. I recently had mother in law become diagnosed with malignant brain tumor and it seems that I am always hearing about prostate cancer,clogged arteries, etc.,etc.,etc.
So does anyone have any advice for someone like me?
I would be grateful if you could give me price quotes if possible, along with what exams are needed.
Thanks in advance!Health advice from professionals or personal experience.
I think all you need to start with is a general physcial exam with the basic blood tests. That should include a prostate exam, given your age. They will also check your cholesterol and blood pressure. If there is anything brewing, the basic tests usually detect something that will need closer looking at. For the record, brain tumors aren't hereditary, and you certainly couldn't catch it from your MIL. You are in the risk group for a heart attack, but it's still not to late to do things to help offset the risk. You don't need outrageously expensive tests to start with, though. I can't tell you the price of the exam where you live, but you can get those quotes just by calling around. All you need is a basic physical, appropriate for a man your age. You don't need MRI's, CAT scans, stress tests, or anything fancy at this point. Meantime, don't worry yourself dreaming up worse case scenarios. You probably are every bit as healthy as you think you are.Health advice from professionals or personal experience.
a doctor will recommend a full physical, blood work, stress test, chest xray and then based on the results, go from there
Well first go get your regular annual exam and go from there.
So does anyone have any advice for someone like me?
I would be grateful if you could give me price quotes if possible, along with what exams are needed.
Thanks in advance!Health advice from professionals or personal experience.
I think all you need to start with is a general physcial exam with the basic blood tests. That should include a prostate exam, given your age. They will also check your cholesterol and blood pressure. If there is anything brewing, the basic tests usually detect something that will need closer looking at. For the record, brain tumors aren't hereditary, and you certainly couldn't catch it from your MIL. You are in the risk group for a heart attack, but it's still not to late to do things to help offset the risk. You don't need outrageously expensive tests to start with, though. I can't tell you the price of the exam where you live, but you can get those quotes just by calling around. All you need is a basic physical, appropriate for a man your age. You don't need MRI's, CAT scans, stress tests, or anything fancy at this point. Meantime, don't worry yourself dreaming up worse case scenarios. You probably are every bit as healthy as you think you are.Health advice from professionals or personal experience.
a doctor will recommend a full physical, blood work, stress test, chest xray and then based on the results, go from there
Well first go get your regular annual exam and go from there.
Personal style; any advice? (need lots of help!)?
I have a native american background and i'm very proud of it. I'm trying to find ways to put my culture into my style. What kind of clothes, shoes, accessories should I wear? I don't want to go too crazy and over the top. I just want it to be natural...advice?
pictures would be WAY helpful :)Personal style; any advice? (need lots of help!)?
You should probably shop at forever 21 they have really cute sort of culturish accessories, oh and you should by some moccasins- (you know moccasins are those boots with the fringe ends made of suede/leather) Really cute! And try some bohemian http://www.hatcountry.com/images/1639.jp鈥?/a>
pictures would be WAY helpful :)Personal style; any advice? (need lots of help!)?
You should probably shop at forever 21 they have really cute sort of culturish accessories, oh and you should by some moccasins- (you know moccasins are those boots with the fringe ends made of suede/leather) Really cute! And try some bohemian http://www.hatcountry.com/images/1639.jp鈥?/a>
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Really need advice on a personal question about se...!?
I'm still a virgin, and have been living with my fiance for 4 yrs. I suffer from vaginimus which is a disorder that makes it really hard for me to have intercourse. I'm so paranoid about the pain. Its ridiculous though bc I really want to get intimate, and I really love my man, but my muscles tense up each time we try. Do you girls have any tips on how I can relax and just do it????
I try to think about other things, and its all really romantic, but as soon as I feel the pain, its over with.
HELP PLEASEReally need advice on a personal question about se...!?
Try to watch x rated movies with him. So u will not on focos when u do it. Hard but u know if your bf really love u since he waits for 4 years. It means his really a nice guy. Sex is important for a man really. I dont know why but thats everyone says...Really need advice on a personal question about se...!?
Try more foreplay and several different positions. And lube might help.
I try to think about other things, and its all really romantic, but as soon as I feel the pain, its over with.
HELP PLEASEReally need advice on a personal question about se...!?
Try to watch x rated movies with him. So u will not on focos when u do it. Hard but u know if your bf really love u since he waits for 4 years. It means his really a nice guy. Sex is important for a man really. I dont know why but thats everyone says...Really need advice on a personal question about se...!?
Try more foreplay and several different positions. And lube might help.
Is it better to join a pension scheme than just have a personal savings account? Any advice welcome!?
Pension scheme is best as you get a tax allowance on it and you do not pay tax on it when you are ready to draw it. Personal savings are taxable and are too easy to dip into. See an Independent Financial Advisor for assistance. Some will charge you a fee for advice but they will take no responsibility for any losses you might incur with bad investment advice. Others will advise you and although not tied to any particular organisation they get a commission from those that you eventually use on their advice. Try Bradford and Bingley Building Society as they have a scheme that could be useful to you. What ever happens start saving ASAP and keep topping up your investments as the years go by and you will then have a happy and worry free retirement. I saved and put money aside for pension and for 12 years I was self employed. The result is that at current values I have a pretty good monthly income and savings with interest that pays for the big treats.Is it better to join a pension scheme than just have a personal savings account? Any advice welcome!?
ask your accounts/finance dept or HR
or go to a financial adviserIs it better to join a pension scheme than just have a personal savings account? Any advice welcome!?
Pension scheme has two advantages
1) It is more tax effecient - you get better tax allowances/benefits.
2) You can't get to it until you retire.
You might also look at purchasing property if you have that kind of money available.
It all depends on whether you believe in pensions...... They have the unfortunate tendancy to end upon the death of the owner, unless they are married or have dependants under the age of 18. Thus If you save in a pension (v tax efficient) and die before or just after the pension starts to pay out you lose and the company that provides the pension wins! However if you live a long time you will be a winner. With a personal savings account you will pay tax on any income, but the money in it can be used by you at any time and given to anyone as part of your estate when you die. If you look at the best of both worlds then I would suggest, depending on the amount that you take advantage of ISAs as the income generated is tax free and you have access to them at any time.
hope this helps
ps I believe in having my savings accessible and not increasing a companies profit were I die at a young age.
pension companies can go bump then you have lost everything you paid in. Get a better plan.
ask your accounts/finance dept or HR
or go to a financial adviserIs it better to join a pension scheme than just have a personal savings account? Any advice welcome!?
Pension scheme has two advantages
1) It is more tax effecient - you get better tax allowances/benefits.
2) You can't get to it until you retire.
You might also look at purchasing property if you have that kind of money available.
It all depends on whether you believe in pensions...... They have the unfortunate tendancy to end upon the death of the owner, unless they are married or have dependants under the age of 18. Thus If you save in a pension (v tax efficient) and die before or just after the pension starts to pay out you lose and the company that provides the pension wins! However if you live a long time you will be a winner. With a personal savings account you will pay tax on any income, but the money in it can be used by you at any time and given to anyone as part of your estate when you die. If you look at the best of both worlds then I would suggest, depending on the amount that you take advantage of ISAs as the income generated is tax free and you have access to them at any time.
hope this helps
ps I believe in having my savings accessible and not increasing a companies profit were I die at a young age.
pension companies can go bump then you have lost everything you paid in. Get a better plan.
Advice for a Personal Statement?
I'm drafting my personal statement for university, is there any advice anyone can give me - as in dos or donts? Advice for a Personal Statement?
make it simple. they don't want you to be a literature professor. clearly tell them what you want to do and what you find interesting about the course. tell them your future ambition and the skills you developed by working (if you did).hand soap
make it simple. they don't want you to be a literature professor. clearly tell them what you want to do and what you find interesting about the course. tell them your future ambition and the skills you developed by working (if you did).
Someone was in my office and using my personal computer? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I went to other building for an hour. I think someone was looking at my personal computer because my Y/A and my myspace webpage were disppeared from the main pages.
Please advice. Thank you.Someone was in my office and using my personal computer? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Even if you do own the computer, if it's tied into the company's network the IT department can and will check to make sure that your terminal is not connected to anything that might hurt the company's system!
It's your computer, but if it's tied to their network they still have some rights as to what you do with it.
I'm guessing that those sites were deleted from your main pages as a matter of company policy by people in the IT group.Someone was in my office and using my personal computer? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
It doesn't matter if the PC is your property or the company's. Are you on the computer when you're supposed to be working? Lots of companies are cracking down on that now. Why hire someone to play on the computer? You're there to work. In your defense, it is creepy that someone might be spying on you. Never post anything that you're ashamed of or that's not true. Be mature. Maybe you should leave your PC @ home. You'll get more work done that way. You do not want to lose your job. Many people are out of work %26amp; would love to be in your shoes...
Get a keylogger to find out what is done when you are away. You might be able to get their password to their Yahoo Email account. Then you can change their profile to indicate they are a sneaky person.
hmmm.. interesting! Who coULd that be? MAny possible answers on that.. 1. someone wants to know what your doing , while your away. is it maybe your suitor? IS there? or your boss? wants to sneak peak maybe 2. You should not leave your personal computer unattended. even if you have your own room as if you want people hacked your computer information or files 3. if its private really, you should be mad. Knowing that you are not there. and somebody comes in, that is not good.. you have the right to get angry, take disciplinary actions.
I don't necessarily see this as a bad thing for someone to do. Leaving your email and myspace open on a works computer is most likely against your company policy - you are there to work.
More importantly, leaving these applications open and logged in mans that someone could have changed your passwords and gained full access to both accounts.
It doesn't seem that the person who was on the computer did this, so I'd assume they have done you a favour. You could be sacked if your boss found you playing about on these sites.
It is not your computer. It belongs to the company you work for.
Telling us where you are geographically would be a start.
In the U.S. if you were at work then you need to learn to lock up when you leave both your office and your computer. Unless you happen to own the business then you do not have an expectation of privacy in your work area, but closing and locking your door would help.
Even if you were the business owner or top level manager there are still some people I am sure who have access to your office, is it s crime for them to use your computer? It is being nosey but it is not a crime. Best thing you can do in the future is to secure your belongings.
The fact you personally own the computer is not relevent as you decided to bring it to work with you.
When you work in an office forget about trust. Someone will stab you in the back faster then on the street.
Depending on what company you work for and what their rules are, even though it was you personal computer, your manager may have the right to look at it since you brought in into company property. And if someone did look at nd saw myspace and Y/A on your computer while you are getting paid to work you will be written up/fired--next time don't goof off at work and try to get away with it by bringing your own computer. It is not a violation of property privacy, you choose to bring it on company property and the company has a right to see what you are doing why they are paying you. If you were my worker I would fire you if I saw myspace on your computer
Please advice. Thank you.Someone was in my office and using my personal computer? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Even if you do own the computer, if it's tied into the company's network the IT department can and will check to make sure that your terminal is not connected to anything that might hurt the company's system!
It's your computer, but if it's tied to their network they still have some rights as to what you do with it.
I'm guessing that those sites were deleted from your main pages as a matter of company policy by people in the IT group.Someone was in my office and using my personal computer? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
It doesn't matter if the PC is your property or the company's. Are you on the computer when you're supposed to be working? Lots of companies are cracking down on that now. Why hire someone to play on the computer? You're there to work. In your defense, it is creepy that someone might be spying on you. Never post anything that you're ashamed of or that's not true. Be mature. Maybe you should leave your PC @ home. You'll get more work done that way. You do not want to lose your job. Many people are out of work %26amp; would love to be in your shoes...
Get a keylogger to find out what is done when you are away. You might be able to get their password to their Yahoo Email account. Then you can change their profile to indicate they are a sneaky person.
hmmm.. interesting! Who coULd that be? MAny possible answers on that.. 1. someone wants to know what your doing , while your away. is it maybe your suitor? IS there? or your boss? wants to sneak peak maybe 2. You should not leave your personal computer unattended. even if you have your own room as if you want people hacked your computer information or files 3. if its private really, you should be mad. Knowing that you are not there. and somebody comes in, that is not good.. you have the right to get angry, take disciplinary actions.
I don't necessarily see this as a bad thing for someone to do. Leaving your email and myspace open on a works computer is most likely against your company policy - you are there to work.
More importantly, leaving these applications open and logged in mans that someone could have changed your passwords and gained full access to both accounts.
It doesn't seem that the person who was on the computer did this, so I'd assume they have done you a favour. You could be sacked if your boss found you playing about on these sites.
It is not your computer. It belongs to the company you work for.
Telling us where you are geographically would be a start.
In the U.S. if you were at work then you need to learn to lock up when you leave both your office and your computer. Unless you happen to own the business then you do not have an expectation of privacy in your work area, but closing and locking your door would help.
Even if you were the business owner or top level manager there are still some people I am sure who have access to your office, is it s crime for them to use your computer? It is being nosey but it is not a crime. Best thing you can do in the future is to secure your belongings.
The fact you personally own the computer is not relevent as you decided to bring it to work with you.
When you work in an office forget about trust. Someone will stab you in the back faster then on the street.
Depending on what company you work for and what their rules are, even though it was you personal computer, your manager may have the right to look at it since you brought in into company property. And if someone did look at nd saw myspace and Y/A on your computer while you are getting paid to work you will be written up/fired--next time don't goof off at work and try to get away with it by bringing your own computer. It is not a violation of property privacy, you choose to bring it on company property and the company has a right to see what you are doing why they are paying you. If you were my worker I would fire you if I saw myspace on your computer
Advice on some personal problems, please?
There's this girl that I like and I told her that I like her. I don't know how she feels buy she talks to me and has rejected me yet. What should I do?Advice on some personal problems, please?
you should keep talking to her and getting to know her better, but don't bring up the fact that you like her again because it might scare her off, just play it cool :)Advice on some personal problems, please?
just keep talking to her. be the same person all the time around her and if she goes in other relationships and your allways there eventually she will realixe how patient and sweet yor are.
please help me
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If she still talks/flirts with you, ask her out! I doubt she rejected you indirectly, or else it'd make things awkward.
GoodLuck(:
-Jas[:
hmmm maybe she was wasnt ready to have a relationship yet
OR
i THINK she was too shy, observe her if she likes, u...
does she keep looking at u, does she talk to u alot??
texts u , gets mad when talking about other girls??
Continue talking to her as a friend, be yourself, and come off as too pushy.
just be patient she'll come around and if she rejects you just be there for her as a friend even if u rlly like her ....soon she might realize that she feels the same way
She hasn't rejected you.
Keep on keepin' on.
BUT.
Keep in mind.
Good things come to people who wait.
hang ou with her talk and ask ifshe wants to hang out sometime or something if she rejects back off and let it down but if not move on from there
she doesnt like you...yet. she may eventually though. Do you want to put yourself up for hurt? is she worth it?
She's rejected you. Move on.
Wait. Did you ask her or not. If so did she or did she not reject you otherwise i guess keep talking to her
Pull your pants down in front of her and wait for her reaction. If she laughs, it'll never work.
she probably doesnt like you in the way you lie her,move on. and always be respectful towards woman
you should keep talking to her and getting to know her better, but don't bring up the fact that you like her again because it might scare her off, just play it cool :)Advice on some personal problems, please?
just keep talking to her. be the same person all the time around her and if she goes in other relationships and your allways there eventually she will realixe how patient and sweet yor are.
please help me
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
If she still talks/flirts with you, ask her out! I doubt she rejected you indirectly, or else it'd make things awkward.
GoodLuck(:
-Jas[:
hmmm maybe she was wasnt ready to have a relationship yet
OR
i THINK she was too shy, observe her if she likes, u...
does she keep looking at u, does she talk to u alot??
texts u , gets mad when talking about other girls??
Continue talking to her as a friend, be yourself, and come off as too pushy.
just be patient she'll come around and if she rejects you just be there for her as a friend even if u rlly like her ....soon she might realize that she feels the same way
She hasn't rejected you.
Keep on keepin' on.
BUT.
Keep in mind.
Good things come to people who wait.
hang ou with her talk and ask ifshe wants to hang out sometime or something if she rejects back off and let it down but if not move on from there
she doesnt like you...yet. she may eventually though. Do you want to put yourself up for hurt? is she worth it?
She's rejected you. Move on.
Wait. Did you ask her or not. If so did she or did she not reject you otherwise i guess keep talking to her
Pull your pants down in front of her and wait for her reaction. If she laughs, it'll never work.
she probably doesnt like you in the way you lie her,move on. and always be respectful towards woman
Why do we ask strangers on the internet for advice on personal problems we would normaly keep to our self?
Coz no one else will answer the question or help and we'd like to stop feeling alone on the issue maybe or don't want to burden someone we know with it. Maybe.Why do we ask strangers on the internet for advice on personal problems we would normaly keep to our self?
because its safe and its not so embarrassing. also so many points of view.Why do we ask strangers on the internet for advice on personal problems we would normaly keep to our self?
we do that because sometimes we need an advice from a total stranger. it about the need to get a picture from the outside of a situation. also the fact that we can't see each other's face and reaction it's a thing that makes us ...';let it all out';. i think it's good for the mind and soul because this way u get a glimpse of how others think and feel about something. it's up to you to make the right decizion
Specifically cause you know that what you say cant be repeated to the person involved... we dont know who you are... so its like we are your best mates and we cant stab you in the back...its a great idea...
It's always easier to tell a complete stranger your deepest secrets and feelings because you have nothing to lose with them. You have no stake in a complete stranger knowing your buisness. It is sad that we can't share these things with our loved ones though
because they dont know us,see us and its easier sometimes than asking a friend,sometimes they have great answers,sometimes they are honest with us even if it is hurtful.
i think that is a personal question which you should keep private
but if we keep it with ourself then things will remain unchange as we ourself will not give proper advice %26amp; we ask unknown as we can be free to them everything as we r unknown so do they
Dunno ! may be because this way nobody knows us, and it does not hurt what other person thinks about u.
The sense os insecurity does not exists here ! May be I said !
As far as myself is concerned I do not ask anytime, never ever did or dared to as I don't like anybody to hear what my heart or mind says !!!
First, you may be curious what advice strangers will give you, and whether it would be useful.
Secondly, it may not be easy to talk to friends as you risk them spreading your problems to others and before long, everybody you know seem to talk/laugh/sneer behind your back.
Thirdly, strangers over the internet are readily available, at the click of the mouse. Whereas friends may not be free, or may not have time to lend a listening ear.
people in their right mind don't
Because on the net, there are a lot of true people who gives good advice based on their experiences. And not only that we feel safe sometimes talking to strangers, even though they say, don't talk to strangers... and in my experience you feel relieved when telling strangers on the net about problems...
Because it helps to get other people's perspectives on things. Plus you'll find it's easier to speak to a stranger about your darkest secrets rather than the people close to you. They won't necessarily judge you and even if they do, you don't know them so it doesnt impact you as much.
To get a totally neutral response.
If you ask your friends, relatives, and neighbors, their answers may be skewed towards not causing a rift.
If you ask an anonymous stranger, they'll be more than happy to tell you an honest answer, espacially is it means that they get to tell you what an *hole you are!
You would normally keep a question to yourself because you'd be embarrased to ask someone you know. That's no problem here!
Because they have no idea who you are and can give you an answer without judging you.
For some,we would like to know that were not the only ones out here with problems, some just don't know what to do to solve there problems, have no one to talk to and need help. And for some it's a opinion poll to see if they did the right thing.
Once you come in contact then he or she is no more a STRANGER...... a problem is a problem when it is only with you...... Just share it with others you get a SOLUTION.....
bye.... now NO STANGER....... good friends.
MANY PEOPLE ARE PROBABLY WONDERING THE SAME QUESTIONS WE ARE, AND WHY NOT GET ADVICE FROM STRANGERS. SOME OF THEM REALLY KNOW WHAT THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT AND GIVE GOOD ADVICE, AND HAVE PROBABLY WENT THROUGH THE SAME SITUATIONS WE ARE ASKING ABOUT.
well i suppose that when we have hard questions and personal ones ,,it isnt always easy to ask those closest to us ,,i think that someone answering questions honestly from the outside not knowing us ,,gives us many perspectives to look over , think about ..here we get answers that we may not want to hear but true honest answers ,,clear cut to the point ,,sometimes its exactly what we need !!!
heck if someone asks my oppinion on here or in ';real'; life, i'll give it, i dont shy away from it if its asked.. lol..
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Because they are strangers...
cause noone judging!!
anonymity
because sometimes they have been through some of the same things we have. and we don't feel intimidated.
because its safe and its not so embarrassing. also so many points of view.Why do we ask strangers on the internet for advice on personal problems we would normaly keep to our self?
we do that because sometimes we need an advice from a total stranger. it about the need to get a picture from the outside of a situation. also the fact that we can't see each other's face and reaction it's a thing that makes us ...';let it all out';. i think it's good for the mind and soul because this way u get a glimpse of how others think and feel about something. it's up to you to make the right decizion
Specifically cause you know that what you say cant be repeated to the person involved... we dont know who you are... so its like we are your best mates and we cant stab you in the back...its a great idea...
It's always easier to tell a complete stranger your deepest secrets and feelings because you have nothing to lose with them. You have no stake in a complete stranger knowing your buisness. It is sad that we can't share these things with our loved ones though
because they dont know us,see us and its easier sometimes than asking a friend,sometimes they have great answers,sometimes they are honest with us even if it is hurtful.
i think that is a personal question which you should keep private
but if we keep it with ourself then things will remain unchange as we ourself will not give proper advice %26amp; we ask unknown as we can be free to them everything as we r unknown so do they
Dunno ! may be because this way nobody knows us, and it does not hurt what other person thinks about u.
The sense os insecurity does not exists here ! May be I said !
As far as myself is concerned I do not ask anytime, never ever did or dared to as I don't like anybody to hear what my heart or mind says !!!
First, you may be curious what advice strangers will give you, and whether it would be useful.
Secondly, it may not be easy to talk to friends as you risk them spreading your problems to others and before long, everybody you know seem to talk/laugh/sneer behind your back.
Thirdly, strangers over the internet are readily available, at the click of the mouse. Whereas friends may not be free, or may not have time to lend a listening ear.
people in their right mind don't
Because on the net, there are a lot of true people who gives good advice based on their experiences. And not only that we feel safe sometimes talking to strangers, even though they say, don't talk to strangers... and in my experience you feel relieved when telling strangers on the net about problems...
Because it helps to get other people's perspectives on things. Plus you'll find it's easier to speak to a stranger about your darkest secrets rather than the people close to you. They won't necessarily judge you and even if they do, you don't know them so it doesnt impact you as much.
To get a totally neutral response.
If you ask your friends, relatives, and neighbors, their answers may be skewed towards not causing a rift.
If you ask an anonymous stranger, they'll be more than happy to tell you an honest answer, espacially is it means that they get to tell you what an *hole you are!
You would normally keep a question to yourself because you'd be embarrased to ask someone you know. That's no problem here!
Because they have no idea who you are and can give you an answer without judging you.
For some,we would like to know that were not the only ones out here with problems, some just don't know what to do to solve there problems, have no one to talk to and need help. And for some it's a opinion poll to see if they did the right thing.
Once you come in contact then he or she is no more a STRANGER...... a problem is a problem when it is only with you...... Just share it with others you get a SOLUTION.....
bye.... now NO STANGER....... good friends.
MANY PEOPLE ARE PROBABLY WONDERING THE SAME QUESTIONS WE ARE, AND WHY NOT GET ADVICE FROM STRANGERS. SOME OF THEM REALLY KNOW WHAT THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT AND GIVE GOOD ADVICE, AND HAVE PROBABLY WENT THROUGH THE SAME SITUATIONS WE ARE ASKING ABOUT.
well i suppose that when we have hard questions and personal ones ,,it isnt always easy to ask those closest to us ,,i think that someone answering questions honestly from the outside not knowing us ,,gives us many perspectives to look over , think about ..here we get answers that we may not want to hear but true honest answers ,,clear cut to the point ,,sometimes its exactly what we need !!!
heck if someone asks my oppinion on here or in ';real'; life, i'll give it, i dont shy away from it if its asked.. lol..
dfgdfgf
Because they are strangers...
cause noone judging!!
anonymity
because sometimes they have been through some of the same things we have. and we don't feel intimidated.
I've recently been made into a cyborg. any advice on personal hygiene?
Regular lubrication of your machine parts and normal human hygiene practices are fine.I've recently been made into a cyborg. any advice on personal hygiene?
Regular lubrication of your machine parts and normal human hygiene practices are fine.I've recently been made into a cyborg. any advice on personal hygiene?
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Regular lubrication of your machine parts and normal human hygiene practices are fine.I've recently been made into a cyborg. any advice on personal hygiene?
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Please read my question its personal but i need advice?
ok im a virgin im 14 and my period is being really weird i had a period on the 1st and 28th of may didnt have one in june at all it is now july and i have yet to have one but i do have this kind of white discharge does anyone have a theory of what is going on please help mePlease read my question its personal but i need advice?
i'm 16 and it happens to me sometimes, don't worry, you're not pregnant!!1Please read my question its personal but i need advice?
that's because your young sweetheart it doesn't regulate for years and years as long as your not having sex you have nothing to worry about trust me i know its bothersome i've been through it but you'll be ok trust me.
that's completly normal, when you first get your period you could have it 1 month and then not the next or whatever, it will eventually happen once a month, the discharge is completly normal aswell.
hope i helped!! x
When you're beginning your period it can be sporradic but if you're worried or your period continues to be all over the place see your doctor. They may put you on the pill to regulate your period or say its nothing and just let it run its course. its never fun having your period more than once a month thats for sure! as for your discharge, it varies all the time. it'll be different when you're about to have your period, after, when you're ovulating, etc. I wouldn't worry about it.
It's normal to have irregular periods when you're young. However, sometimes discharge can also be associated with a yeast infection. If it starts to get either smelly, painful, or itchy, talk to your mom or a doctor. Yeast infections aren't a big deal and are easy to get rid of.
When I was 14, my periods were crazy. I skipped 9 whole months once because I was very thin and extremely busy. The white discharge means you are ovulating so expect a period to happen in about two weeks or so. This is all normal. But please talk to your doctor to be sure. If you have not had a visit in a few years, now is a good time to have one and you can talk about all these questions you have about your new body.
it takes some women longer than others for their period to regulate, it took mine 3 years before it was regular and my sister only took 1 years to regulate, and that's normal for a lot of women. it will start soon and i know your not pregnant. as for the discharge this is very normal, every girl gets it, its how your vagina keeps its self clean, you may notice theres more sometimes and other times less, theres usually more when you are ovulating (when the ovaries releases an egg). now if the discharge starts to have a bad ';fishy'; smell you may have an infection and should go to the doctor, if it turns a different colour that's also a sign of infection and again go to your doctor, if it gets really itchy on your vagina its most likely a yeast infection which can be cured by using medication you can buy from your local drugstore/grocery store. hope this helps hun :)
Hmmm... I would go see a doctor. I'm sorry, but I have no advice to give other than tell your mom and see a doctor. I hope everything works out. Good luck.
That is the same way my periods were as a teenager just starting, and now as a 27 year old. My trouble was PCOS, or Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome. In short, my ovaries make eggs, but for some reason (usually cysts) have a hard time kicking them out of my ovaries. It's not a death sentence by any means, but it can cause some problems. It can make cramping very severe when you finally do have a period, and it can complicate getting pregnant for some people. I on the other hand have four children and didn't need any intervention to get pregnant. Now, please realize I am NOT diagnosing you, yo really should see a doctor about it and share your concerns, because in all the magic that is a woman's reproductive system, there are literally thousands of different scenarios. But it's good that yo are trying to educate yourself and maybe you could write down a list of possibilities to take with you to an appointment. My doc took almost 2 years to diagnose me because he was just a GP and not a gyno and really didn't have a clue....
relax and dont think too much about it
some girls have irregular periods for the first 2 yrs.
talk to ur mom abou it for more info
i must say i'm surprised no one on here knows anything about their periods!
*sigh*
the first year or two your period will be very irregular.
it's just getting used to your body changes.
don't worry about it.
its normal some times you miss you period also sometimes it can change when it comes like even if you get it in the begining of the month it can change randomly to the middle of the month happens to me often nothing to worry about as long as you dont miss your period like 3 months id say theres nothing to worry about
ewwwwwwwwwwwwww
you are a sick o
no one i mean NOOOO one wants to know about your discharge
ask your mother my god or like dr. phil
i'm 16 and it happens to me sometimes, don't worry, you're not pregnant!!1Please read my question its personal but i need advice?
that's because your young sweetheart it doesn't regulate for years and years as long as your not having sex you have nothing to worry about trust me i know its bothersome i've been through it but you'll be ok trust me.
that's completly normal, when you first get your period you could have it 1 month and then not the next or whatever, it will eventually happen once a month, the discharge is completly normal aswell.
hope i helped!! x
When you're beginning your period it can be sporradic but if you're worried or your period continues to be all over the place see your doctor. They may put you on the pill to regulate your period or say its nothing and just let it run its course. its never fun having your period more than once a month thats for sure! as for your discharge, it varies all the time. it'll be different when you're about to have your period, after, when you're ovulating, etc. I wouldn't worry about it.
It's normal to have irregular periods when you're young. However, sometimes discharge can also be associated with a yeast infection. If it starts to get either smelly, painful, or itchy, talk to your mom or a doctor. Yeast infections aren't a big deal and are easy to get rid of.
When I was 14, my periods were crazy. I skipped 9 whole months once because I was very thin and extremely busy. The white discharge means you are ovulating so expect a period to happen in about two weeks or so. This is all normal. But please talk to your doctor to be sure. If you have not had a visit in a few years, now is a good time to have one and you can talk about all these questions you have about your new body.
it takes some women longer than others for their period to regulate, it took mine 3 years before it was regular and my sister only took 1 years to regulate, and that's normal for a lot of women. it will start soon and i know your not pregnant. as for the discharge this is very normal, every girl gets it, its how your vagina keeps its self clean, you may notice theres more sometimes and other times less, theres usually more when you are ovulating (when the ovaries releases an egg). now if the discharge starts to have a bad ';fishy'; smell you may have an infection and should go to the doctor, if it turns a different colour that's also a sign of infection and again go to your doctor, if it gets really itchy on your vagina its most likely a yeast infection which can be cured by using medication you can buy from your local drugstore/grocery store. hope this helps hun :)
Hmmm... I would go see a doctor. I'm sorry, but I have no advice to give other than tell your mom and see a doctor. I hope everything works out. Good luck.
That is the same way my periods were as a teenager just starting, and now as a 27 year old. My trouble was PCOS, or Poly Cystic Ovarian Syndrome. In short, my ovaries make eggs, but for some reason (usually cysts) have a hard time kicking them out of my ovaries. It's not a death sentence by any means, but it can cause some problems. It can make cramping very severe when you finally do have a period, and it can complicate getting pregnant for some people. I on the other hand have four children and didn't need any intervention to get pregnant. Now, please realize I am NOT diagnosing you, yo really should see a doctor about it and share your concerns, because in all the magic that is a woman's reproductive system, there are literally thousands of different scenarios. But it's good that yo are trying to educate yourself and maybe you could write down a list of possibilities to take with you to an appointment. My doc took almost 2 years to diagnose me because he was just a GP and not a gyno and really didn't have a clue....
relax and dont think too much about it
some girls have irregular periods for the first 2 yrs.
talk to ur mom abou it for more info
i must say i'm surprised no one on here knows anything about their periods!
*sigh*
the first year or two your period will be very irregular.
it's just getting used to your body changes.
don't worry about it.
its normal some times you miss you period also sometimes it can change when it comes like even if you get it in the begining of the month it can change randomly to the middle of the month happens to me often nothing to worry about as long as you dont miss your period like 3 months id say theres nothing to worry about
ewwwwwwwwwwwwww
you are a sick o
no one i mean NOOOO one wants to know about your discharge
ask your mother my god or like dr. phil
Need advice its kind of personal and embaressing?
jadec789@hotmail.co.uk ima girl imm 14 need some advice or advice website its kind of embaressing if you think you can help email me ';/Need advice its kind of personal and embaressing?
Sweetheart, please do not put your e-mail address on such a public forum, for your own safety and peace of mind.
Any creep, pervert or predator now has your e-mail address and will find out where you live.
If you have a question of an embarrassing nature, put it under Women's Health (in the Health section) and someone will help you.
And don't worry about being embarrassed - in the couple of years I've been in here on Yahoo Answers, I have seen it all, pretty much.Need advice its kind of personal and embaressing?
Jade you need to be very wary of giving your email address out. I understand you need help and advice but this is a very dangerous way of getting it. You will get all sorts contacting you and you have no way of knowing if they are genuine or freaks.
You would have been better asking your question on this forum as this would have been anonymous and you can pick out which answers sound sensible and genuine. Also if there are answers that are not helpful other people can argue against them.
If you get loads of emails that are not helpful change your email address and start again.
You can email me too sweetie. Please be careful about who you talk to though, and don't agree to meet anyone you don't know.
You can also email me. Good Luck
You can e-mail me if you want
I'll try to help the best way I can (:hand soap
Sweetheart, please do not put your e-mail address on such a public forum, for your own safety and peace of mind.
Any creep, pervert or predator now has your e-mail address and will find out where you live.
If you have a question of an embarrassing nature, put it under Women's Health (in the Health section) and someone will help you.
And don't worry about being embarrassed - in the couple of years I've been in here on Yahoo Answers, I have seen it all, pretty much.Need advice its kind of personal and embaressing?
Jade you need to be very wary of giving your email address out. I understand you need help and advice but this is a very dangerous way of getting it. You will get all sorts contacting you and you have no way of knowing if they are genuine or freaks.
You would have been better asking your question on this forum as this would have been anonymous and you can pick out which answers sound sensible and genuine. Also if there are answers that are not helpful other people can argue against them.
If you get loads of emails that are not helpful change your email address and start again.
You can email me too sweetie. Please be careful about who you talk to though, and don't agree to meet anyone you don't know.
You can also email me. Good Luck
You can e-mail me if you want
I'll try to help the best way I can (:
What was your experience when you first went ';under the needle'; ??? any regrets, personal feeling ,advice ?
hi guys im just curious
what was your experience when you first went ';under the needle';got tattoo for the very 1st time???
i want to get a tattoo in April im turning 18 and i will most likely get it done in the summer like after the end of school year
im a bit confused ,i cant decide what i want i mean i have like 3 different ideas on my head right now
but i want to get a tattoo of phoenix i did a lot of research and i found this great drawing :http://kissy-face.deviantart.com/art/Fel鈥?/a>
and i love it !!!!!!! but is it too big for 1st tattoo ???? i will want it on my arm so that it will start on the top of my arm and i want the tail to end like 3 inches below the elbow
there are 2 other pics that i like but the 1st one is the best i think
here are the other pics:http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=vijyhk%26amp;s鈥?/a>
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=2dujr5f%26amp;鈥?/a>
i did a lot of research for the design and most of htme were like tribal phoenix'es but those are good i like them
so how much do you think it will cost me and how much ( time wise) will it take??? i know that the best thing is to go over to the tattoo parlor and ask the tattoooist but i dont want to waste their time
so any one what was the 1st tattoo like for you ??? any regrets ?? personal feelings behind it ???
my best friend recently got a tattoo on her foot and she said that like after 10 minutes the skin will numb and that the outline is the worst part
but i dont know everyone has a different pain tolerance so it depends on the personWhat was your experience when you first went ';under the needle'; ??? any regrets, personal feeling ,advice ?
The first is the best choice, in my opinion, for several reasons. First off, it's got the right expression for the face, and secondly, the flow of the bird is unequaled by the other two birds. The only problem I see with it at all, is placement. That bird, (if you place the length like you said) is going to wrap all the way around your arm. It'll work, if you size it down a little from the top. That part of your arm isn't real sensitive, and placement is everything. It'll be more annoying there than it will be painful. Nice piece, though. You got good taste. Oh yeah, my first tat, I had the feeling everybody gets that says 'There's no turning back now!' Then I got a high off of it. They really make you feel loud and proud, if they're a nice piece. That one is gonna cost around three hundred, give or take forty bucks. But you'll love it! Take care.What was your experience when you first went ';under the needle'; ??? any regrets, personal feeling ,advice ?
My first! HA! My first was on my right ankle. My leg went into shock and wouldn't stop shaking after. But that was the beginning of an addiction to tattoos............ Good luck to you. Sounds like you are really thinking it threw and not just getting one off the wall.
i can't give you any experience details because i haven't had any myself, but that is a really beautiful design. and i wish you luck on your tattoo-ing.
My first time.. haha I remember jumping cause I had NO idea what it was going to feel like.. ya know? lol my artist laughed at me and he still jokes with me about it.. and your friend is right (imo) about how after a while it kinda numbs up.. but I have nine tattoos and they all have felt very different.. I think the one that starts on my pelvic bone and curves up over my hip line is the absolute worst feeling out of all of them.. and that the one on my foot tickled a bit.. I don't regret any of them.. I really love them still! Have fun with your tattoos! : )
my first time was really crazy cause it was in the back of some makeshift tattoo parlor in some run-down fleamarket that used to be a grocery store. I was nervous but excited at the same time. looking back now, it wasn't the smartest thing but i was 17 and with everything else, i like to learn the hard way about stuff. i got lucky b/c the guy did a pretty good job and i didn't get infected w/ anything but i definitely wouldn't recommend going that route. i don't regret it tho b/c it was an experience in my life.
i think thats what some people don't understand about tattoos. at least for me, every tattoo i have is an experience and a reminder of where i was at certain points in my life. i can point at any tattoo i have and it takes me back whether they be good times or bad times.
I got my first one on my right shoulder blade. It's about 7 inches long, maybe 8 or so. It didn't hurt that bad until the needle got higher up onto the bony part of my shoulder. The rule of thumb with pain is the closer to the bone the needle is, the more it's going to hurt. So a tattoo on your ribs or chest for instance is going to hurt more than a tattoo on your arm. And yes the outline is definitely the worst part of it.
I like the first of the three designs you picked out. It looks more epic and more powerful. I'm not sure about the placement though. That is going to be a huge tattoo, which if done right by a reputable artist will look awesome! But that's going to cost a lot of money, and I'm not sure it's the best choice as a FIRST tattoo. Don't be afraid to go visit a shop and ask different artists- you won't be wasting their time. I went before I got mine and asked how much it would cost, etc, and since I was happy with the answers I made my appointment.
First off... You should put together a design of your own. Don't just go with some run of the mill tattoo. It should be personal to you. This means you don't want to settle for a piece somebody else has. I took at least a month solid designing the rough drafts of each tattoo I got.
Find a good artist. You aren't just buying a lamp here. The artist should have work that is nothing but perfection in your eyes. Check with some of his\her recent clients. Find out if the artist has a heavy hand\ takes a long time\ does touch ups (a definite must). Ask to watch them do a piece on someone. They will really appreciate your intelligence.
If you have sensitive skin, go with a light handed artist. I do, and I can tell you each tattoo wasn't the most pleasant experience.
I got my first when I was 18 (25 now). I had a much larger theme picked out, and the first tattoo was a small piece of that theme. It took about an hour. Didn't hurt too bad. Took about an hour. Cost me $100 (cheap for a 4';X6'; tattoo). I've gotten a lot more work (2 more tattoos w\color), and I love looking at them everyday.
what was your experience when you first went ';under the needle';got tattoo for the very 1st time???
i want to get a tattoo in April im turning 18 and i will most likely get it done in the summer like after the end of school year
im a bit confused ,i cant decide what i want i mean i have like 3 different ideas on my head right now
but i want to get a tattoo of phoenix i did a lot of research and i found this great drawing :http://kissy-face.deviantart.com/art/Fel鈥?/a>
and i love it !!!!!!! but is it too big for 1st tattoo ???? i will want it on my arm so that it will start on the top of my arm and i want the tail to end like 3 inches below the elbow
there are 2 other pics that i like but the 1st one is the best i think
here are the other pics:http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=vijyhk%26amp;s鈥?/a>
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=2dujr5f%26amp;鈥?/a>
i did a lot of research for the design and most of htme were like tribal phoenix'es but those are good i like them
so how much do you think it will cost me and how much ( time wise) will it take??? i know that the best thing is to go over to the tattoo parlor and ask the tattoooist but i dont want to waste their time
so any one what was the 1st tattoo like for you ??? any regrets ?? personal feelings behind it ???
my best friend recently got a tattoo on her foot and she said that like after 10 minutes the skin will numb and that the outline is the worst part
but i dont know everyone has a different pain tolerance so it depends on the personWhat was your experience when you first went ';under the needle'; ??? any regrets, personal feeling ,advice ?
The first is the best choice, in my opinion, for several reasons. First off, it's got the right expression for the face, and secondly, the flow of the bird is unequaled by the other two birds. The only problem I see with it at all, is placement. That bird, (if you place the length like you said) is going to wrap all the way around your arm. It'll work, if you size it down a little from the top. That part of your arm isn't real sensitive, and placement is everything. It'll be more annoying there than it will be painful. Nice piece, though. You got good taste. Oh yeah, my first tat, I had the feeling everybody gets that says 'There's no turning back now!' Then I got a high off of it. They really make you feel loud and proud, if they're a nice piece. That one is gonna cost around three hundred, give or take forty bucks. But you'll love it! Take care.What was your experience when you first went ';under the needle'; ??? any regrets, personal feeling ,advice ?
My first! HA! My first was on my right ankle. My leg went into shock and wouldn't stop shaking after. But that was the beginning of an addiction to tattoos............ Good luck to you. Sounds like you are really thinking it threw and not just getting one off the wall.
i can't give you any experience details because i haven't had any myself, but that is a really beautiful design. and i wish you luck on your tattoo-ing.
My first time.. haha I remember jumping cause I had NO idea what it was going to feel like.. ya know? lol my artist laughed at me and he still jokes with me about it.. and your friend is right (imo) about how after a while it kinda numbs up.. but I have nine tattoos and they all have felt very different.. I think the one that starts on my pelvic bone and curves up over my hip line is the absolute worst feeling out of all of them.. and that the one on my foot tickled a bit.. I don't regret any of them.. I really love them still! Have fun with your tattoos! : )
my first time was really crazy cause it was in the back of some makeshift tattoo parlor in some run-down fleamarket that used to be a grocery store. I was nervous but excited at the same time. looking back now, it wasn't the smartest thing but i was 17 and with everything else, i like to learn the hard way about stuff. i got lucky b/c the guy did a pretty good job and i didn't get infected w/ anything but i definitely wouldn't recommend going that route. i don't regret it tho b/c it was an experience in my life.
i think thats what some people don't understand about tattoos. at least for me, every tattoo i have is an experience and a reminder of where i was at certain points in my life. i can point at any tattoo i have and it takes me back whether they be good times or bad times.
I got my first one on my right shoulder blade. It's about 7 inches long, maybe 8 or so. It didn't hurt that bad until the needle got higher up onto the bony part of my shoulder. The rule of thumb with pain is the closer to the bone the needle is, the more it's going to hurt. So a tattoo on your ribs or chest for instance is going to hurt more than a tattoo on your arm. And yes the outline is definitely the worst part of it.
I like the first of the three designs you picked out. It looks more epic and more powerful. I'm not sure about the placement though. That is going to be a huge tattoo, which if done right by a reputable artist will look awesome! But that's going to cost a lot of money, and I'm not sure it's the best choice as a FIRST tattoo. Don't be afraid to go visit a shop and ask different artists- you won't be wasting their time. I went before I got mine and asked how much it would cost, etc, and since I was happy with the answers I made my appointment.
First off... You should put together a design of your own. Don't just go with some run of the mill tattoo. It should be personal to you. This means you don't want to settle for a piece somebody else has. I took at least a month solid designing the rough drafts of each tattoo I got.
Find a good artist. You aren't just buying a lamp here. The artist should have work that is nothing but perfection in your eyes. Check with some of his\her recent clients. Find out if the artist has a heavy hand\ takes a long time\ does touch ups (a definite must). Ask to watch them do a piece on someone. They will really appreciate your intelligence.
If you have sensitive skin, go with a light handed artist. I do, and I can tell you each tattoo wasn't the most pleasant experience.
I got my first when I was 18 (25 now). I had a much larger theme picked out, and the first tattoo was a small piece of that theme. It took about an hour. Didn't hurt too bad. Took about an hour. Cost me $100 (cheap for a 4';X6'; tattoo). I've gotten a lot more work (2 more tattoos w\color), and I love looking at them everyday.
How long does it take to get a six pack from personal experience please?all advice will be valued?
i want to know how long ot will take to get a six pack and what u did so i could copy that or improve on it because iam on a fitness goal and iam determinedHow long does it take to get a six pack from personal experience please?all advice will be valued?
If you are exercising properly it should take a couple of months. But please don't be an idiot and only work abs, work out you're whole body. It depends on you're genetics, determination, diet and workout routine. It took me about 6 months from when I started bodybuilding to get a clearly visible 6 pack although I already had a low BF % at the time. It is impossible to tell how long it will take you.
Also, to the kid who claims to be 6% body fat and have a 12 pack. It's impossible to get a 12 pack (maximum is 8) and it is very unhealthy to be 6% body fat for long periods of time.How long does it take to get a six pack from personal experience please?all advice will be valued?
Well it took me a year and i did cardio everyday and core workouts every other day. For cardio i ran 5 miles a day and for core workouts i did 200 crunches a day as long with leg pullups as well. I also lifted weights light weights with high reps for about an hour a day. I currently have a 12 pack and have a body fat percentage of 6 percent.
I have been doing elite gymnastics since i was 4 and i curently have an 8 pack, but i have had it for a while so im not exactly sure when i first got my 6 pack because i was pretty young. SO maybe you should try taking up a hard core gymnastics class for about a year, im guessing, i practice 6 days a week for four hours, since i was 8.
If you are exercising properly it should take a couple of months. But please don't be an idiot and only work abs, work out you're whole body. It depends on you're genetics, determination, diet and workout routine. It took me about 6 months from when I started bodybuilding to get a clearly visible 6 pack although I already had a low BF % at the time. It is impossible to tell how long it will take you.
Also, to the kid who claims to be 6% body fat and have a 12 pack. It's impossible to get a 12 pack (maximum is 8) and it is very unhealthy to be 6% body fat for long periods of time.How long does it take to get a six pack from personal experience please?all advice will be valued?
Well it took me a year and i did cardio everyday and core workouts every other day. For cardio i ran 5 miles a day and for core workouts i did 200 crunches a day as long with leg pullups as well. I also lifted weights light weights with high reps for about an hour a day. I currently have a 12 pack and have a body fat percentage of 6 percent.
I have been doing elite gymnastics since i was 4 and i curently have an 8 pack, but i have had it for a while so im not exactly sure when i first got my 6 pack because i was pretty young. SO maybe you should try taking up a hard core gymnastics class for about a year, im guessing, i practice 6 days a week for four hours, since i was 8.
My sister has constant bloating nearly every time she eats!! medical or personal experience advice please!!?
For the past year and a half (approximately) my sister has constantly been getting bloated after she eats; even if the food has very minimal fat.
she has had many tests for things such as celiac etc. and the results returned negative. After that doctor started her on natural fiber tablets and powders(i cant remember which ones specifically)- they did reduced the bloating but as soon as she stops taking them it happens all over again!!
Since this began she has been on a fairly strict diet although she is still bloating and getting sick, the doctor said he is going to have a follow up test for celiac etc. and if it comes up negative she is going to have to have a biopsy on her stomach..
does anybody have an idea of what she has???
If it helps she is 20 years old and around 53kg
any APPROPRIATE answers would be great and will be rewarded!
Thanks in advance...My sister has constant bloating nearly every time she eats!! medical or personal experience advice please!!?
I used to get bloating like that alot, and it was due to a clogging of my colon. this may sound a little gross if you've never heard of it before, but I suggest going for a colonic. Its a safe, pleasant and a little disgusting process which requires going to see a naturopath, you lying down on a special bed and putting a water-tube in your anus. What will happen is warm water will come through the tube and into your colon, as it fills up(you may experience minor cramping) it washes the years of residue from the walls. When you are full, you just gently squeeze and all the water will come out, and you feel very relaxed, and very light!(I lost 3kg of solid poop and a crayon I ate when I was a baby)
No, I'm not joking.
Detox.
Hope this helps!My sister has constant bloating nearly every time she eats!! medical or personal experience advice please!!?
Does she have nausea with the bloating? Last summer, I would get nauseous after I'd eat anything. Even just a little bit. I just felt way too full. It turned out that I had a gall bladder problem. She could be checked for gall stones or a HIDA test, which tests the gall bladder's function. I was 20 at the time.
check symptoms on here, you can click on all kinds of stuff, like suggestions, etc.
Yeah a lot of wheat products can cause it too I heard.My cousins wife had the problem bad and for years, then found out it was that cilliac allergy thing. She stopped eating that ingredient and is fine.
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/celiac-鈥?/a>
she has had many tests for things such as celiac etc. and the results returned negative. After that doctor started her on natural fiber tablets and powders(i cant remember which ones specifically)- they did reduced the bloating but as soon as she stops taking them it happens all over again!!
Since this began she has been on a fairly strict diet although she is still bloating and getting sick, the doctor said he is going to have a follow up test for celiac etc. and if it comes up negative she is going to have to have a biopsy on her stomach..
does anybody have an idea of what she has???
If it helps she is 20 years old and around 53kg
any APPROPRIATE answers would be great and will be rewarded!
Thanks in advance...My sister has constant bloating nearly every time she eats!! medical or personal experience advice please!!?
I used to get bloating like that alot, and it was due to a clogging of my colon. this may sound a little gross if you've never heard of it before, but I suggest going for a colonic. Its a safe, pleasant and a little disgusting process which requires going to see a naturopath, you lying down on a special bed and putting a water-tube in your anus. What will happen is warm water will come through the tube and into your colon, as it fills up(you may experience minor cramping) it washes the years of residue from the walls. When you are full, you just gently squeeze and all the water will come out, and you feel very relaxed, and very light!(I lost 3kg of solid poop and a crayon I ate when I was a baby)
No, I'm not joking.
Detox.
Hope this helps!My sister has constant bloating nearly every time she eats!! medical or personal experience advice please!!?
Does she have nausea with the bloating? Last summer, I would get nauseous after I'd eat anything. Even just a little bit. I just felt way too full. It turned out that I had a gall bladder problem. She could be checked for gall stones or a HIDA test, which tests the gall bladder's function. I was 20 at the time.
check symptoms on here, you can click on all kinds of stuff, like suggestions, etc.
Yeah a lot of wheat products can cause it too I heard.My cousins wife had the problem bad and for years, then found out it was that cilliac allergy thing. She stopped eating that ingredient and is fine.
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/celiac-鈥?/a>
Going to college in the US next year. Can I have ur advice on more...personal things? Read below pls:?
Like how many clothes I shd bring, books, furniture, life in a dorm, parties, sex life (I'm a female, virgin). I'm from Eastern Europe.
I appreciate all your answers.Going to college in the US next year. Can I have ur advice on more...personal things? Read below pls:?
Okay, where are you going? If it's anywhere in the northern half of the US, be sure to bring think clothes (which you probably have since you're from Eastern Europe).
Hmm, two coats, four sweaters/sweatshirts, six t-shirts/shirts/blouses, as much underwear as you'd like...
You might want to bring some books in your native language too, so you won't get bored when you have nothing else to do =p
As for dorm life, parties, and sex life... YOU have control over them and what happens to you depends on YOUR decisions. I've been at university in the UK (Scotland) for 1 year already and guess what... I'm still a virgin and I've not had a single drop of alcohol (everyone around me is dead drunk). Of course, you could choose otherwise. As I said, it's up to you! ^^
What country are you from? Poland? My best friend is from Poland, haha. He's from 艁贸d藕, got a 92% average on his Matura, and was accepted to the University of Warsaw for philosophy and physics (joint degree). But he chose to come here ^^
Hopefully I can earn some money from a part-time job this year... so I can go to Poland next summer to visit him and have a look around.Going to college in the US next year. Can I have ur advice on more...personal things? Read below pls:?
Well it depends on where in the country you are going. East Coast, mid-west, west coast? And just from knowing a lot of international students, you should only bring your clothes, and worry about buying your dorm stuff when you get here. Its cheaper and easier than shipping it half way across the world. I could be of more help if you could provide me with more details.
I appreciate all your answers.Going to college in the US next year. Can I have ur advice on more...personal things? Read below pls:?
Okay, where are you going? If it's anywhere in the northern half of the US, be sure to bring think clothes (which you probably have since you're from Eastern Europe).
Hmm, two coats, four sweaters/sweatshirts, six t-shirts/shirts/blouses, as much underwear as you'd like...
You might want to bring some books in your native language too, so you won't get bored when you have nothing else to do =p
As for dorm life, parties, and sex life... YOU have control over them and what happens to you depends on YOUR decisions. I've been at university in the UK (Scotland) for 1 year already and guess what... I'm still a virgin and I've not had a single drop of alcohol (everyone around me is dead drunk). Of course, you could choose otherwise. As I said, it's up to you! ^^
What country are you from? Poland? My best friend is from Poland, haha. He's from 艁贸d藕, got a 92% average on his Matura, and was accepted to the University of Warsaw for philosophy and physics (joint degree). But he chose to come here ^^
Hopefully I can earn some money from a part-time job this year... so I can go to Poland next summer to visit him and have a look around.Going to college in the US next year. Can I have ur advice on more...personal things? Read below pls:?
Well it depends on where in the country you are going. East Coast, mid-west, west coast? And just from knowing a lot of international students, you should only bring your clothes, and worry about buying your dorm stuff when you get here. Its cheaper and easier than shipping it half way across the world. I could be of more help if you could provide me with more details.
Boyfriend and I broke up because he has a lot of personal problems. Advice please!?
Okay so we've been dating for 2 years I'm 21 and he's 22, talking about marriage kids etc etc. We've never really fought and we're madly in love. These past 3 weeks we've been fighting a lot, it's been really hard for both of us to handle since we're not used to fighting. All of a sudden, yesterday he came over and broke up with me. He said he's facing too many things in life right now (finding a job after college, parents going through a nasty divorce, fighting with his brother about family issues) and that he needs some time to figure things out. I really think that the fighting was just stressing him out and he's pushing me away. I believe that you shouldn't push someone away who you love when you're going through a hard time. What can I do? I still want to be with him and he said he still loves me. I don't get it! :(Boyfriend and I broke up because he has a lot of personal problems. Advice please!?
Be patient! Tell him you understand that he is going through a tough time right now and you are willing to help him with it. Let him know that no matter what has happened that caused the fighting between the two of you that you are over it and you would like to be a shoulder for him to lean on while he works through some of his steps in life. If he needed someone to help him just get away from everything going on make sure you are ready with some quick ways to help cheer him up.
Another thing they may help you out is make sure you have a group of people that you can rely on for yourself. You have to be mentally healthy for yourself before you would be able to help him out.
Hope it helps you out. Many people cross our paths in life and we have many people that help lead us to our next step in life. life is hard and things do not always happen the way we want them to. Hold your head high no matter what happens and make sure you have fun in your life so that you can always have a bright path! :)
GOOD LUCK!!! Boyfriend and I broke up because he has a lot of personal problems. Advice please!?
hes going through a tough time right now u fighting with him is just making it harder so be a suck up just for now go and tell him how u fill and be honest
give him space
Be patient! Tell him you understand that he is going through a tough time right now and you are willing to help him with it. Let him know that no matter what has happened that caused the fighting between the two of you that you are over it and you would like to be a shoulder for him to lean on while he works through some of his steps in life. If he needed someone to help him just get away from everything going on make sure you are ready with some quick ways to help cheer him up.
Another thing they may help you out is make sure you have a group of people that you can rely on for yourself. You have to be mentally healthy for yourself before you would be able to help him out.
Hope it helps you out. Many people cross our paths in life and we have many people that help lead us to our next step in life. life is hard and things do not always happen the way we want them to. Hold your head high no matter what happens and make sure you have fun in your life so that you can always have a bright path! :)
GOOD LUCK!!! Boyfriend and I broke up because he has a lot of personal problems. Advice please!?
hes going through a tough time right now u fighting with him is just making it harder so be a suck up just for now go and tell him how u fill and be honest
give him space
Im 24 weeks pregnant (relationship issue) im scared, I need your personal opinions/advice please. Anything?
(This only happened once) Just lastnight me and my boyfriend were making love, He couldnt keep it up after like 10 minutes or less, he said he was 'stressed' from the army. In my opinion, I love it, I need it, im 6 months pregnant, I want it more than usual, and around once every 2 or 3 days we make love. He does work hard, it just got me angry with him lastnight, saying ';well you mineswell just cheat on me'; Which I know he would never, but my mind thinks he's going to turn into one off those 'dogs' and im scared shitless to stay with him, I dont want him to hurt me and our child. He was crying and couldnt sleep without me, so he always chased me to come to sleep, when i wasnt tired.. I just feel digusted, I mean we've always use to make love all the time without him dieing like that.. doesnt make me feel good of myself, he calls and calls from work, we live together aswell.. and im nicely talking about leaving him, before things get worse.. he says he needs me, he doesnt like what im suggesting, your scared for nothing, I love you, stop throwing that ******* image on me, you know im a better man, you have to realize im human, im not a robot.. It pisses me off cause I dont ask for anything, and when I need love, its been hard to get it.. Im fustrated, and thinking the worst. He does prove he loves me always, and he's always home. I just feel so ugly, hes says no your my beautiful baby. Now im not asking everyday, at least when I need it most and when that 'died down' part happened, I feel like I sucked, or im not attractive anymore. He says its not you, blah blah blah.. and if I don't leave him I feel like i'll be negative, and bitchy towards him
Am I being to harsh? Am I wanting to leave him for the wrong reason? Am I fussing, and fustrated for nothing?
Thanks for your time, greatly appreciated!!Im 24 weeks pregnant (relationship issue) im scared, I need your personal opinions/advice please. Anything?
Yes, you're being too harsh. Yes, you want to leave him for the wrong reason. Yes, you are fussing and frustrated for nothing. Yes, you are treating him like dirt when he most needs your support.
I'm sorry you can't get laid whenever you want, but it sounds like the guy has a helluva lot on his plate right now, and he doesn't need you piling on.Im 24 weeks pregnant (relationship issue) im scared, I need your personal opinions/advice please. Anything?
It sound like he was stressed out and he its no like he meant you any harm. Hell prob make it up to you when thinks get better. Give him a chance everyone has bad days.
am not clear about ur Q. but i think he might have just been tired..u said he works hard right..give him some slack ..good luck :)
This roller-coaster emotions is brought about by your pregnance. Take your time. You will both enjoy your relationship in the long run. Plus you will both enjoy the responsibility of being parents to your child.
all this are regular simptoms of a pregnant woman....u feel disgusted u get mad @ everything ur bitchy and u just want to leave everything behind...just stick around a lil bit more and things will change and about ur man he;s just tired let him rest a lil bit and his stamina would come back up
Ugh...pregnancy is so hard. Okay so...lets be honost. He could be cheating on you, but if your gut is telling you he's not, then he's not. If he was cheating, he probably wouldn't even try to have sex with you period. That said, working hard has NOTHING to do with not wanting to have sex. I've never met a man that's TOO tired for sex...ever. I'm not saying this is the case but some men have a hard time having sex with their pregnant wives/girlfriends. They're worried about poking the baby, or feel like the baby will know what's going on, or sometimes the distended belly freaks them out.
I think you're being a little hasty in wanting to leave him...but I think you really need to get to the bottom of what's going on...and try not to let your emotions get the best of you! I almost left my fiance at least 20 times when I was pregnant!!
If you are married or not, you Can't have sex on the 8 month. I wish a man could have Baby's to see what we go though for 9 months.
I say '; suck it up '; You %26amp; your mate will have 18 years or more with your child. My Ex-husband said to me on the 81/2 months '; you walk like a Duck'; I never forgot that! Now, I have a Beautiful Daughter that's 39. He wanted a Boy But things happen. I was a Single parent for almost 25 years %26amp; worked 2 jobs %26amp; the stress got to me. I have a stroke at the age of 35 when I was asleep . Next year ';Lupus'; %26amp; in 1987 my Daughter was in the hospital for ';Lupus';for 5 months. She was Only 17 years old %26amp; dyeing. I wish you Well. Talk to your mate before you make a decision.
You have a lot of issues here. First, there is the issue that he lost his erection. I think you are reading way too much into that. It may be that he is too tired. It may be that he has issues having sex with you when you are pregnant. It may be that the relationship has problems. But none of this strikes me as a good reason to end a relationship.
If he's in the Army, it's not surprising that he is stressed out. If you are pregnant, it's not surprising that he is confused.
Odds are, he's not the only one that is going through some difficult times. As you no doubt know, pregnancy can cause real havoc on a woman, her body, her self-image, her urges, and so on. Maybe you're overreacting in part because your hormones are skipping around wildly. Not only that, but you are no doubt apprehensive about childbirth and parenting. That's a lot to carry around every day.
Yet it sounds like you two have a lot going for you: a solid past, and a pretty serious commitment to each other.
I would suggest talking to him. Tell him how you feel, and give him time and space to tell you how he feels. Don't overstate the importance of one moment in bed. In fact, don't even bring it up. It's a good way to put him on the defensive, without gaining anything. No doubt he feels insecure about it in the first place anyway.
If talking to each other does not work, seek counseling. Go to couples counseling together, and have a professional help you sort out these issues. If he won't go with you, go to a counselor on your own.
Good luck.
Careful girl don't let hormones get the best of you.... Being pregnant can make you super moody and super horny. Sometimes if you don't get your orgasm it can make you really mean and think awful things. Don't put to much stress on your man, I know lots of women do masturbate and other are grossed out by it, but I would recommend as a temporary solution breaking yourself off on the regular. Hes probably nervous about becoming a dad and the threats of you leaving are not gonna help with his performance either. SO put your self in a good mood get yours with a toy or your hand and see if you can calm down and leave him alone. If you live together and he calls you and follows you around when your upset sounds like hes very commited and not going any where.
Your question was confusing. Are you saying that you want to leave him because he couldn't get it up? Then yes you are being a freaking idiot. The man is in the army, has stress at work, and has a nagging pregnant girlfriend at home who is hen-pecking him to death. And you wonder why he can't get hard?
I don't think you should leave him over that. From what you explained, he seems to be a good guy. When men are stressed out they tend to lose interest in sex. There was a time when my boyfriend was really stressed at work and we had this issue. I felt unattractive, like he wasn't interested in me but i was wrong. Try to be understanding, ask him why he is stressed and what you can do to help. Let him know how this situation makes you feel and allow him to explain himself. Don't make rash decisions that you'll regret later. A good man is hard to find and this one seems like a keeper.
Try and talk to him about it. You are pregnant, therefore you are very emotional and your libido may be working up. Maybe he is stressed or maybe he is cheating. You may never know. But it sounds as though to me he might do something he will regret leave him alone for awhile maybe then talk to him. Give the poor schmuck a chance. Good luck!
Please don't take anything of what I'm about to write offensively. It's sounds to me like you're equating love with sex. So the guy works hard, give him a break. He shows you he loves you in other ways than sex...what's wrong with that?
Being pregnant did the same thing to me. I suggest you quit putting all that pressure on your boyfriend. There could be many reasons that he couldn't physically respond to you. Maybe he could pleasure yuo in a different way. Intimacy is important part of a relationship but not the only part. After I got so far along my baby's dad worried he would hurt our child. Learn to talk openly with him and lose the nagging it will drive him away! If worst comes to worst take care of your horniness yourself!!
Yes, I think you are being to harsh. You are pregnant, your emotions are all over the place. I think you are overreacting. He may be afraid of hurting the baby (a lot of men think sex can hurt the baby). I won't say your frustration is for nothing, but it may be aimed at your boyfriend for the wrong reasons. You said you want sex more since being pregnant, so that is probably an adjustment for both of you. Give him a little time to adjust and perhaps de-stress, maybe things will get lighter. I hope this helps and good luck with everything.
i just think you are over emotional due to your prenancy. sleep on it for nine months, im sure you wont feel this way any more. if you love him and you know for a fact that he loves you, dont leave him. especially for your baby's sake.
Aah, the sweet hormonal beauty that is pregnancy. He seems like a great guy. You are about to have a baby, your just stressed. I personally,being a single mother, would not give up a man like that. Plus, if its only one time he couldnt perform maybe he was just stressed out. Most people dont feel attractive while their pregnant. You gain noticeable weight, you feel like crap, everything about it is hectic. Just worry about the baby for now. Try to keep stress to a minimum.hand soap
Am I being to harsh? Am I wanting to leave him for the wrong reason? Am I fussing, and fustrated for nothing?
Thanks for your time, greatly appreciated!!Im 24 weeks pregnant (relationship issue) im scared, I need your personal opinions/advice please. Anything?
Yes, you're being too harsh. Yes, you want to leave him for the wrong reason. Yes, you are fussing and frustrated for nothing. Yes, you are treating him like dirt when he most needs your support.
I'm sorry you can't get laid whenever you want, but it sounds like the guy has a helluva lot on his plate right now, and he doesn't need you piling on.Im 24 weeks pregnant (relationship issue) im scared, I need your personal opinions/advice please. Anything?
It sound like he was stressed out and he its no like he meant you any harm. Hell prob make it up to you when thinks get better. Give him a chance everyone has bad days.
am not clear about ur Q. but i think he might have just been tired..u said he works hard right..give him some slack ..good luck :)
This roller-coaster emotions is brought about by your pregnance. Take your time. You will both enjoy your relationship in the long run. Plus you will both enjoy the responsibility of being parents to your child.
all this are regular simptoms of a pregnant woman....u feel disgusted u get mad @ everything ur bitchy and u just want to leave everything behind...just stick around a lil bit more and things will change and about ur man he;s just tired let him rest a lil bit and his stamina would come back up
Ugh...pregnancy is so hard. Okay so...lets be honost. He could be cheating on you, but if your gut is telling you he's not, then he's not. If he was cheating, he probably wouldn't even try to have sex with you period. That said, working hard has NOTHING to do with not wanting to have sex. I've never met a man that's TOO tired for sex...ever. I'm not saying this is the case but some men have a hard time having sex with their pregnant wives/girlfriends. They're worried about poking the baby, or feel like the baby will know what's going on, or sometimes the distended belly freaks them out.
I think you're being a little hasty in wanting to leave him...but I think you really need to get to the bottom of what's going on...and try not to let your emotions get the best of you! I almost left my fiance at least 20 times when I was pregnant!!
If you are married or not, you Can't have sex on the 8 month. I wish a man could have Baby's to see what we go though for 9 months.
I say '; suck it up '; You %26amp; your mate will have 18 years or more with your child. My Ex-husband said to me on the 81/2 months '; you walk like a Duck'; I never forgot that! Now, I have a Beautiful Daughter that's 39. He wanted a Boy But things happen. I was a Single parent for almost 25 years %26amp; worked 2 jobs %26amp; the stress got to me. I have a stroke at the age of 35 when I was asleep . Next year ';Lupus'; %26amp; in 1987 my Daughter was in the hospital for ';Lupus';for 5 months. She was Only 17 years old %26amp; dyeing. I wish you Well. Talk to your mate before you make a decision.
You have a lot of issues here. First, there is the issue that he lost his erection. I think you are reading way too much into that. It may be that he is too tired. It may be that he has issues having sex with you when you are pregnant. It may be that the relationship has problems. But none of this strikes me as a good reason to end a relationship.
If he's in the Army, it's not surprising that he is stressed out. If you are pregnant, it's not surprising that he is confused.
Odds are, he's not the only one that is going through some difficult times. As you no doubt know, pregnancy can cause real havoc on a woman, her body, her self-image, her urges, and so on. Maybe you're overreacting in part because your hormones are skipping around wildly. Not only that, but you are no doubt apprehensive about childbirth and parenting. That's a lot to carry around every day.
Yet it sounds like you two have a lot going for you: a solid past, and a pretty serious commitment to each other.
I would suggest talking to him. Tell him how you feel, and give him time and space to tell you how he feels. Don't overstate the importance of one moment in bed. In fact, don't even bring it up. It's a good way to put him on the defensive, without gaining anything. No doubt he feels insecure about it in the first place anyway.
If talking to each other does not work, seek counseling. Go to couples counseling together, and have a professional help you sort out these issues. If he won't go with you, go to a counselor on your own.
Good luck.
Careful girl don't let hormones get the best of you.... Being pregnant can make you super moody and super horny. Sometimes if you don't get your orgasm it can make you really mean and think awful things. Don't put to much stress on your man, I know lots of women do masturbate and other are grossed out by it, but I would recommend as a temporary solution breaking yourself off on the regular. Hes probably nervous about becoming a dad and the threats of you leaving are not gonna help with his performance either. SO put your self in a good mood get yours with a toy or your hand and see if you can calm down and leave him alone. If you live together and he calls you and follows you around when your upset sounds like hes very commited and not going any where.
Your question was confusing. Are you saying that you want to leave him because he couldn't get it up? Then yes you are being a freaking idiot. The man is in the army, has stress at work, and has a nagging pregnant girlfriend at home who is hen-pecking him to death. And you wonder why he can't get hard?
I don't think you should leave him over that. From what you explained, he seems to be a good guy. When men are stressed out they tend to lose interest in sex. There was a time when my boyfriend was really stressed at work and we had this issue. I felt unattractive, like he wasn't interested in me but i was wrong. Try to be understanding, ask him why he is stressed and what you can do to help. Let him know how this situation makes you feel and allow him to explain himself. Don't make rash decisions that you'll regret later. A good man is hard to find and this one seems like a keeper.
Try and talk to him about it. You are pregnant, therefore you are very emotional and your libido may be working up. Maybe he is stressed or maybe he is cheating. You may never know. But it sounds as though to me he might do something he will regret leave him alone for awhile maybe then talk to him. Give the poor schmuck a chance. Good luck!
Please don't take anything of what I'm about to write offensively. It's sounds to me like you're equating love with sex. So the guy works hard, give him a break. He shows you he loves you in other ways than sex...what's wrong with that?
Being pregnant did the same thing to me. I suggest you quit putting all that pressure on your boyfriend. There could be many reasons that he couldn't physically respond to you. Maybe he could pleasure yuo in a different way. Intimacy is important part of a relationship but not the only part. After I got so far along my baby's dad worried he would hurt our child. Learn to talk openly with him and lose the nagging it will drive him away! If worst comes to worst take care of your horniness yourself!!
Yes, I think you are being to harsh. You are pregnant, your emotions are all over the place. I think you are overreacting. He may be afraid of hurting the baby (a lot of men think sex can hurt the baby). I won't say your frustration is for nothing, but it may be aimed at your boyfriend for the wrong reasons. You said you want sex more since being pregnant, so that is probably an adjustment for both of you. Give him a little time to adjust and perhaps de-stress, maybe things will get lighter. I hope this helps and good luck with everything.
i just think you are over emotional due to your prenancy. sleep on it for nine months, im sure you wont feel this way any more. if you love him and you know for a fact that he loves you, dont leave him. especially for your baby's sake.
Aah, the sweet hormonal beauty that is pregnancy. He seems like a great guy. You are about to have a baby, your just stressed. I personally,being a single mother, would not give up a man like that. Plus, if its only one time he couldnt perform maybe he was just stressed out. Most people dont feel attractive while their pregnant. You gain noticeable weight, you feel like crap, everything about it is hectic. Just worry about the baby for now. Try to keep stress to a minimum.
Ladies: any advice/stories/personal experiences?
I'm just looking for some advice or some of your experiences with the following:
1. Your first gyno exam.
2. Your first time having sex.
Nothing specific...just in general what it was like and what happened.Ladies: any advice/stories/personal experiences?
well the first gyno exam is just awkward...it is not as bad as you think though. she will probably feel your breasts....then she will insert a plastic thing into your vagina to keep it open while she scrapes the cervix with a big q tip. this may be a little uncomfortable but it is over in no time....first time sex is awkward too.....it definatley will not be like what you see on the movies.Ladies: any advice/stories/personal experiences?
first gyno exam isnt as bad as you think it would be. It was alot quicker than i thought it would be. First sex...also alot quicker than i would have thought.
For your first gyno exam just be as calm and patient as possible, also look up standard procedure for what the examiner is supposed to be doing that can put you at ease as well.
Both events were uncomfortable and rather boring.
1.uncomfortable
2.uncomfortable
Both...the more calm you are the less they will hurt. I never had a painful gyno experience but I hear some people have. Just remember a doctor is there to help, not hurt and remember to relax and breathe. As for sex, it hurts even if you are relaxed but it hurts less the more relaxed you are. Some people bleed and some people don't. Take it slow, make sure you are in a comfortable place and not rushed and with someone you really care for. Trust is big in both these situations. Good luck!
1. Your first gyno exam.
2. Your first time having sex.
Nothing specific...just in general what it was like and what happened.Ladies: any advice/stories/personal experiences?
well the first gyno exam is just awkward...it is not as bad as you think though. she will probably feel your breasts....then she will insert a plastic thing into your vagina to keep it open while she scrapes the cervix with a big q tip. this may be a little uncomfortable but it is over in no time....first time sex is awkward too.....it definatley will not be like what you see on the movies.Ladies: any advice/stories/personal experiences?
first gyno exam isnt as bad as you think it would be. It was alot quicker than i thought it would be. First sex...also alot quicker than i would have thought.
For your first gyno exam just be as calm and patient as possible, also look up standard procedure for what the examiner is supposed to be doing that can put you at ease as well.
Both events were uncomfortable and rather boring.
1.uncomfortable
2.uncomfortable
Both...the more calm you are the less they will hurt. I never had a painful gyno experience but I hear some people have. Just remember a doctor is there to help, not hurt and remember to relax and breathe. As for sex, it hurts even if you are relaxed but it hurts less the more relaxed you are. Some people bleed and some people don't. Take it slow, make sure you are in a comfortable place and not rushed and with someone you really care for. Trust is big in both these situations. Good luck!
I need advice on personal finances when im a stay at home mom and my husband owns his own business?
i have stayed at home since i had our son in november. my husband has his own business. i have no clue as to how much money we have. i have no access to any money unless he gives it to me. i have run out of gas and had no money. if i need to go to the store or run errands i have to get money from him first. he gave me 110 dollars for groceries last night. i got to the check out and was 20 dollars short. i was kinda mad about it. he got mad at me and said he is the one working for all the money and i should be happy with how much he gave me. what should i do?I need advice on personal finances when im a stay at home mom and my husband owns his own business?
I have been a stay at home mom for 11 years and my husband is the provider, but we both have access to the money. As a matter of fact, because I am at home and more responsible in that area, I manage the finances. Your husband is wrong in keeping you from accessing your bank using an ATM card. Of course you would have to be responsible in managing your spending. It sounds like your job right now is not being appreciated. If you were to go to work and hire a babysitter, it would cost you all much more. Maybe you could bring that up in a loving way, not nagging and see what he says. Tell him that you are thinking of getting a job in order to have some money and what he thinks about it.I need advice on personal finances when im a stay at home mom and my husband owns his own business?
I am sorry you are going through this...
Are you and your husband able to have calm discussions together or does he completely shut you out?
When you want to discuss these issue with him, do not do it after he just got off of work, but rather after he has had time to relax a bit or on one of his days off.
Ask him if he sees you as his life partner. And then tell you are feeling like it is more like a father-daughter relationship.
He is controlling you this way... he knows he can get away with it... but the problem is, while he is working on the business you are working in the home taking care of the home, the cleaning, the cooking, and your son. He must see it as you having an easy time all day long everyday. He has to realize that you are doing this part of the work so that he does not have to do all of the cooking, cleaning, and taking care of you son... you are helping him be able to be comfortable at home... (right?)
You should ask him to include you in some of the finances... like opening up a bank account where every month he puts in a certain amount that is only for you to spend on whatever you want... and then a certain amount again every month for any of the household things you buy...like the groceries. Tell him how much is necessary for groceries and products for the necessities for your son.
I think you should take look at this little slideshow from an episode on Dr. Phil... there are other problems in this marriage also on top of the money, but maybe you can get him to read this together with you?.... click on the ';Can Tom learn to share?'; under the ';Cashless and Confined'; section:
http://drphil.com/shows/show/666/
Here is another interesting excerpt from an article she may want to bring up(I'll post the link below it):
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Pay For Housewives
(from The Economic Emergence of Women, 2005 edition)
The housewife, despite the productive work she does, receives no sum of money she can call her wage. This lack of a wage has struck many people as an important injustice, which they say ought to be remedied. Perhaps what is most galling is that while the housewife's duties resemble those of a servant, the financial arrangements she has with her husband arguably resemble those of someone even lower down on the status ladder, namely the slave. Slaves get no sum of money designated as a wage, but do get room, board and clothing.
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http://www.listproc.bucknell.edu/archive鈥?/a>
This guy is controlling you thru money. This is not healthy behaviour. He wants you to be submissive and by holding money over your head he is keeping you submissive. There are some who would regard this as a form of spousal abuse. You need him to share the finances with you. First of all is for equality in marriage. You are not his employee or his servant. You are his wife and that means you need to be involved in the household finances.
Next up, you need to know what bills need to be paid and what you owe and how much money you have. What if he was killed in an accident and you suddenly inherited all of these responsibilities. You would not know what there was to do. For the sake of the family, you need to know how the finances are.
Finally, what is the husband hiding? Is there a lot of debt he does not want you to know about? Is he paying for something that he does not want you to know about.
Talk to him. If he refuses then you need to try to find a way for him and you to get therapy. If he refuses then go by yourself. If he refuses to pay then he is just controlling you even more. In that case, talk to a lawyer. Maybe divorcing the guy and getting half of the business will teach him something.
He owns his own business...and it sounds like he doesn't take proper care of the accounting end of it. He should be writing himself a paycheck on a regular basis as a salried employee. The amount should be at least equal to a corporate low level executive or less if the business cannot afford it. He should then deposit that check in a separate personal account for your families use.
Was the decision for you to be a stay at home mom shared by both of you? How were your personal (you and him) finances handled prior to this? I suspect all of your paycheck went to your personal expenses with you thinking you were doing a community pot share and share alike. Your business may be involved with accounting issues that will have the IRS with penalties pouncing on you one day. A sound company uses checks not cash (petty cash aside) for every transaction. If your husband operates his business soley with a wad of cash in his pocket, I suspect the taxes have not been filed and you need to see an accountant to get it on track. You are married and the IRS will not separate your earnings from his...it's all one pot to them when they come to collect.
Take an internet course in Small Business Accounting so you understand how it should work. The majority of successful small family businesses I have been involved with the stay at home wife (my aunt, my mother, my mother-in-law and myself) does the accounting/office end of the business. This man is showing clear signs of being a control freak and maybe you having a better understanding of the normal workings of the business may help.
For future reference, it can sometimes be near impossible to get child, let alone spousal, support from a selfish self-employed ex spouse.
i agree with Goldie, Mercer and VW.
This is not how a marriage should be - one person controlling another - very unequal.
By you being at home and not having any knowledge about your finances everything you do is being controlled.
Talk to your husband and work something out - if he doesnt want to budge try counseling and if that doesnt work - i dont think this is a healthy environment for you or your child HOWEVER,
i suspect there is more to this story than you are telling - and that you were aware of his ways before you married him.
Talk, counseling and live a healthy life and Pray for whats best for your marriage and your little one. Please?
You guys need to come to an agreement over finances. He needs to realize that just because you are not earning an income right now, you are still part of the family, and the job you are doing is helping contribute to the family's finances. How? You don't pay child care expenses, you don't pay the extra commuting costs associated with getting a 2nd person to work, you don't have extra lunches to buy, you probably don't eat out as much, you don't have a dry cleaning bill, and on and on. Just think of all the expenses associated with working full time--that's money you're saving right there.
He needs to have a realistic idea of a budget as well. Explain to him that $110 is NOT going to buy a weeks worth of groceries--not with milk costing close to $3 a gallon. You guys need to figure out a system that will work for the 2 of you. You also need to have some discretionary money that YOU can spend each month, and not have to account to him for it. His attitude that he is working for the money and YOU should be happy with what he deigns to give you is wrong...it's a MY money approach. He needs to realize that it is OUR money, not MY money.
You might need to seek the help of a marriage counselor for this one as well. Try to talk to him first, but sometimes that impartial 3rd party really can help shed some light on the situation. A counselor can probably also help you guys figure out a system that will work for you.
I've been a stay at home mother for almost 18 years now. Our system is this: My husband takes care of the bills--not because I can't, but because he is also a small business owner--so you know that many bills from the household (ie: certain car payments, insurance, etc) are paid by the business. It's easier for him to just pay bills all at one time, rather than keep a stack at home and one at the office. We have 2 checking accounts. One is for fixed household expenses (mortgage, car payments, etc.) that generally are automatically deducted. The other is for other household expenses--stuff like groceries, voice lessons, lunch money for kids, clothes, yearbooks, soccer club payments, household repairs, you name it. I generally have that checkbook with me--but my hubby does keep a pad at the office. We order duplicate checks for that account, because he also has the register. At night, he'll go through my checkbook, and record the checks I've written. I also have a major credit card, and a gas company credit card--so I've never run out of gas because I didn't have the cash on hand to fill up. Running out of gas because you don't have the money to fill up the car can ruin today's fuel injection systems, meaning a very hefty repair bill on the car.
Just talk with him about all this though, and reach a concensus here. It took my hubby and I MANY years to get our system down, and there were LOTS of fights during that time. Just remember you guys are a team, and work as such. Good luck to you both.
Try to come to an agreement about him giving you a specific amount of money each week or each month so that you do not have to keep coming back to him.
You two need to talk, and quickly! A marriage is a partnership. If you agreed that you'd stay home and care for the child and the house while he works, then that's what you do. You should have access to everything as his wife, accounts, income, taxes, etc. This is not the 1600s. You should be given a monthly allowance that covers everything you need - including food, toiletries, gas, clothes, shoes, etc. Now if you have issues managing money, then have him pay the bills but give you money for incidentals. And you will need to go into a budget management class. There is no way I would allow my husband to dictate to me what I can and can not spend/have. Somethings are practical, if you have a goal in mind, then you have to sacrifice for that goal, but otherwise, he should not tell you ';he's making the money, be happy with what he gives';. Now if there is no dinner on the table, and no sex at night, you can tell him ';be happy with what I gave you'; but you don't really want that. You want a marriage that works and isn't tit-for-tat. His job is to make the money, yours is to stay home and manage it. If not, get some counseling - but I would think this should have been layed out in the initial agreement. If you have no money of your own, then put the baby in childcare and get a job. If he complains tell him ';too bad';. You gotta start standing up for yourself. Good luck.
You both need to talk, you are having money and/or control issues. This needs to be resolved so your family will continue to grow healthy. You are a stay at home Mom and that is worth a lot. Your husband may not want to worry you about the finances, may be that is all the money there was available or he may have control issues. In either case you need to be educated on how much money comes in and how much goes out, so you then can create a budget to keep the family healthy.
I agree with VW. Don't feel bad I only get $60 a week for 4 of us. My husband is a dick just like yours!
It sounds like he has some control issues! Regardless of who makes the money, you are a family and should be equally entitled to it! There is nothing wrong with being on a budget and working together to stick with it, but he needs to try to make you feel more informed.
You have every right to know where the money is going, and how much is being made! Afterall, if he isn't paying the bills, your credit will be affected also! You realy need to put your foot down on this! Make him understand that you just want to be included in the finances! What would happen if he were to be killed tomorrow? You wouldn't have a clue where to start. Tell him that!
Instead of getting so upset about how much money he gives you for groceries, tell him to do the shopping! He needs a dose of reality if he thinks $110 is enough!! Maybe that will open his eyes!
Good luck
tell him you want to have something doing,get a job or a business of your own i think by that he will respect you more and not get mad at you cos you are supporting him financially
I have been a stay at home mom for 11 years and my husband is the provider, but we both have access to the money. As a matter of fact, because I am at home and more responsible in that area, I manage the finances. Your husband is wrong in keeping you from accessing your bank using an ATM card. Of course you would have to be responsible in managing your spending. It sounds like your job right now is not being appreciated. If you were to go to work and hire a babysitter, it would cost you all much more. Maybe you could bring that up in a loving way, not nagging and see what he says. Tell him that you are thinking of getting a job in order to have some money and what he thinks about it.I need advice on personal finances when im a stay at home mom and my husband owns his own business?
I am sorry you are going through this...
Are you and your husband able to have calm discussions together or does he completely shut you out?
When you want to discuss these issue with him, do not do it after he just got off of work, but rather after he has had time to relax a bit or on one of his days off.
Ask him if he sees you as his life partner. And then tell you are feeling like it is more like a father-daughter relationship.
He is controlling you this way... he knows he can get away with it... but the problem is, while he is working on the business you are working in the home taking care of the home, the cleaning, the cooking, and your son. He must see it as you having an easy time all day long everyday. He has to realize that you are doing this part of the work so that he does not have to do all of the cooking, cleaning, and taking care of you son... you are helping him be able to be comfortable at home... (right?)
You should ask him to include you in some of the finances... like opening up a bank account where every month he puts in a certain amount that is only for you to spend on whatever you want... and then a certain amount again every month for any of the household things you buy...like the groceries. Tell him how much is necessary for groceries and products for the necessities for your son.
I think you should take look at this little slideshow from an episode on Dr. Phil... there are other problems in this marriage also on top of the money, but maybe you can get him to read this together with you?.... click on the ';Can Tom learn to share?'; under the ';Cashless and Confined'; section:
http://drphil.com/shows/show/666/
Here is another interesting excerpt from an article she may want to bring up(I'll post the link below it):
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Pay For Housewives
(from The Economic Emergence of Women, 2005 edition)
The housewife, despite the productive work she does, receives no sum of money she can call her wage. This lack of a wage has struck many people as an important injustice, which they say ought to be remedied. Perhaps what is most galling is that while the housewife's duties resemble those of a servant, the financial arrangements she has with her husband arguably resemble those of someone even lower down on the status ladder, namely the slave. Slaves get no sum of money designated as a wage, but do get room, board and clothing.
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taken from:
http://www.listproc.bucknell.edu/archive鈥?/a>
This guy is controlling you thru money. This is not healthy behaviour. He wants you to be submissive and by holding money over your head he is keeping you submissive. There are some who would regard this as a form of spousal abuse. You need him to share the finances with you. First of all is for equality in marriage. You are not his employee or his servant. You are his wife and that means you need to be involved in the household finances.
Next up, you need to know what bills need to be paid and what you owe and how much money you have. What if he was killed in an accident and you suddenly inherited all of these responsibilities. You would not know what there was to do. For the sake of the family, you need to know how the finances are.
Finally, what is the husband hiding? Is there a lot of debt he does not want you to know about? Is he paying for something that he does not want you to know about.
Talk to him. If he refuses then you need to try to find a way for him and you to get therapy. If he refuses then go by yourself. If he refuses to pay then he is just controlling you even more. In that case, talk to a lawyer. Maybe divorcing the guy and getting half of the business will teach him something.
He owns his own business...and it sounds like he doesn't take proper care of the accounting end of it. He should be writing himself a paycheck on a regular basis as a salried employee. The amount should be at least equal to a corporate low level executive or less if the business cannot afford it. He should then deposit that check in a separate personal account for your families use.
Was the decision for you to be a stay at home mom shared by both of you? How were your personal (you and him) finances handled prior to this? I suspect all of your paycheck went to your personal expenses with you thinking you were doing a community pot share and share alike. Your business may be involved with accounting issues that will have the IRS with penalties pouncing on you one day. A sound company uses checks not cash (petty cash aside) for every transaction. If your husband operates his business soley with a wad of cash in his pocket, I suspect the taxes have not been filed and you need to see an accountant to get it on track. You are married and the IRS will not separate your earnings from his...it's all one pot to them when they come to collect.
Take an internet course in Small Business Accounting so you understand how it should work. The majority of successful small family businesses I have been involved with the stay at home wife (my aunt, my mother, my mother-in-law and myself) does the accounting/office end of the business. This man is showing clear signs of being a control freak and maybe you having a better understanding of the normal workings of the business may help.
For future reference, it can sometimes be near impossible to get child, let alone spousal, support from a selfish self-employed ex spouse.
i agree with Goldie, Mercer and VW.
This is not how a marriage should be - one person controlling another - very unequal.
By you being at home and not having any knowledge about your finances everything you do is being controlled.
Talk to your husband and work something out - if he doesnt want to budge try counseling and if that doesnt work - i dont think this is a healthy environment for you or your child HOWEVER,
i suspect there is more to this story than you are telling - and that you were aware of his ways before you married him.
Talk, counseling and live a healthy life and Pray for whats best for your marriage and your little one. Please?
You guys need to come to an agreement over finances. He needs to realize that just because you are not earning an income right now, you are still part of the family, and the job you are doing is helping contribute to the family's finances. How? You don't pay child care expenses, you don't pay the extra commuting costs associated with getting a 2nd person to work, you don't have extra lunches to buy, you probably don't eat out as much, you don't have a dry cleaning bill, and on and on. Just think of all the expenses associated with working full time--that's money you're saving right there.
He needs to have a realistic idea of a budget as well. Explain to him that $110 is NOT going to buy a weeks worth of groceries--not with milk costing close to $3 a gallon. You guys need to figure out a system that will work for the 2 of you. You also need to have some discretionary money that YOU can spend each month, and not have to account to him for it. His attitude that he is working for the money and YOU should be happy with what he deigns to give you is wrong...it's a MY money approach. He needs to realize that it is OUR money, not MY money.
You might need to seek the help of a marriage counselor for this one as well. Try to talk to him first, but sometimes that impartial 3rd party really can help shed some light on the situation. A counselor can probably also help you guys figure out a system that will work for you.
I've been a stay at home mother for almost 18 years now. Our system is this: My husband takes care of the bills--not because I can't, but because he is also a small business owner--so you know that many bills from the household (ie: certain car payments, insurance, etc) are paid by the business. It's easier for him to just pay bills all at one time, rather than keep a stack at home and one at the office. We have 2 checking accounts. One is for fixed household expenses (mortgage, car payments, etc.) that generally are automatically deducted. The other is for other household expenses--stuff like groceries, voice lessons, lunch money for kids, clothes, yearbooks, soccer club payments, household repairs, you name it. I generally have that checkbook with me--but my hubby does keep a pad at the office. We order duplicate checks for that account, because he also has the register. At night, he'll go through my checkbook, and record the checks I've written. I also have a major credit card, and a gas company credit card--so I've never run out of gas because I didn't have the cash on hand to fill up. Running out of gas because you don't have the money to fill up the car can ruin today's fuel injection systems, meaning a very hefty repair bill on the car.
Just talk with him about all this though, and reach a concensus here. It took my hubby and I MANY years to get our system down, and there were LOTS of fights during that time. Just remember you guys are a team, and work as such. Good luck to you both.
Try to come to an agreement about him giving you a specific amount of money each week or each month so that you do not have to keep coming back to him.
You two need to talk, and quickly! A marriage is a partnership. If you agreed that you'd stay home and care for the child and the house while he works, then that's what you do. You should have access to everything as his wife, accounts, income, taxes, etc. This is not the 1600s. You should be given a monthly allowance that covers everything you need - including food, toiletries, gas, clothes, shoes, etc. Now if you have issues managing money, then have him pay the bills but give you money for incidentals. And you will need to go into a budget management class. There is no way I would allow my husband to dictate to me what I can and can not spend/have. Somethings are practical, if you have a goal in mind, then you have to sacrifice for that goal, but otherwise, he should not tell you ';he's making the money, be happy with what he gives';. Now if there is no dinner on the table, and no sex at night, you can tell him ';be happy with what I gave you'; but you don't really want that. You want a marriage that works and isn't tit-for-tat. His job is to make the money, yours is to stay home and manage it. If not, get some counseling - but I would think this should have been layed out in the initial agreement. If you have no money of your own, then put the baby in childcare and get a job. If he complains tell him ';too bad';. You gotta start standing up for yourself. Good luck.
You both need to talk, you are having money and/or control issues. This needs to be resolved so your family will continue to grow healthy. You are a stay at home Mom and that is worth a lot. Your husband may not want to worry you about the finances, may be that is all the money there was available or he may have control issues. In either case you need to be educated on how much money comes in and how much goes out, so you then can create a budget to keep the family healthy.
I agree with VW. Don't feel bad I only get $60 a week for 4 of us. My husband is a dick just like yours!
It sounds like he has some control issues! Regardless of who makes the money, you are a family and should be equally entitled to it! There is nothing wrong with being on a budget and working together to stick with it, but he needs to try to make you feel more informed.
You have every right to know where the money is going, and how much is being made! Afterall, if he isn't paying the bills, your credit will be affected also! You realy need to put your foot down on this! Make him understand that you just want to be included in the finances! What would happen if he were to be killed tomorrow? You wouldn't have a clue where to start. Tell him that!
Instead of getting so upset about how much money he gives you for groceries, tell him to do the shopping! He needs a dose of reality if he thinks $110 is enough!! Maybe that will open his eyes!
Good luck
tell him you want to have something doing,get a job or a business of your own i think by that he will respect you more and not get mad at you cos you are supporting him financially
I'm a personal trainer and thinking of starting a program for children.. Any opinions/advice?
I'm a personal trainer, I also have a passion for kids, I'm going to school to be an elementary teacher. I'm really considering starting a program for the summer where I would instruct children on exercise. We would get together once or twice a week and just do different activities...some things I thought the kids would enjoy would be
Swimming, Races, Sports, Games that keep them moving, etc
My questionS for all of you is do you think this is something people would be interested in??
I would have to charge each participant a fee to cover the costs of the places we may have to rent/reserve (swimming pool) and I would like to buy prizes/rewards and healthy snacks. What would be a reasonable cost??
Other than the activities I listed can you think of anything else?
I was thinking of holding our meetings at a park, do you have any other suggestions?
And last, If I decide to do this where would be the best places to advertise?
Thanks in advance, please be completely honestI'm a personal trainer and thinking of starting a program for children.. Any opinions/advice?
First let me say this ... Kudos to you for the idea!!!
As a parent, and a youth Cheerleading Coach, I feel that it is a wonderful idea! You may ask other trainers that you know, (or friends %26amp; fellow students, even parents who like your idea), if they would be interested in helping you. I am coaching 14 girls between grades 5 - 8, and they can be a little trying at times. I do have an assistant coach but ... she is not much help. You must have patience and understanding.
:-)
I remember being outside all the time as a child, (and teenager), and some kids today REALLY need some direction away from the television, games and internet. So your idea is great! And I do think that parents would be interested in your program.
If you are thinking of holding your ';meetings'; at the park, why not pitch the idea to your park district. They may even help you to fund the program. And there are other organizations that you can go to and ask for donations to help support the program. Your local American Legion Post is one good place to go. (I am a member of the Women's Auxillary @ the American Legion in my area.) One of the things that they are there for is community support. Your idea is something that they may be willing to help you with. (In most Posts there are 3 units, regular Vet's units, Sons of the American Legion [S.A.L.], and the Women's Auxillary). If you do get this program underway, find out when all 3 meetings are held and go to all 3 and ask them to support your cause.
I charge $30 per girl for cheerleading as we are not affiliated with the school. We are affiliated with the Youth Football program. The school does not fund either program in anyway.We hold several fundraisers throughout the season. You wouldn't have that option. That is why I made the suggestions above. But you will have to charge some type of fee ... and that would depend on how many participants you have. You are performing a service therefore there has to be a fee even if you are donating your time, such as I do. And in a way, you are kind of being a part-time ';babysitter'; for some parents. That is just reality.
I would suggest meeting 3 times a week and also giving some nutrition tips to the kids, in the form of ';newsletters'; to parents. This is something that you will have to plan in advance and give a calendar of events to the parents. You could attach the nutrition tips to that.
The events that you are thinking of sound great also. Maybe a water balloon fight or something of that nature to be included. I still like a good water balloon fight and I am 37! Something that appeals to the kids. Dancing is great exercise also. Kids love music and dancing no matter what age they are! You could let them bring some music that they like and play DJ while they dance, and you should dance with them! I use this as a type of warm-up before beginning practice and the girls love it.
You will also need to have emergency contact information, a form giving you permission to seek medical treatment for the kids should the need arise. You also need to make sure on the form that is signed by the parents that you are not responsible for thier medical costs or liable for thier injuries. You will need to know allergies and/or other medical conditions they may have and if they are on any medications. I am sure that you are certified in CPR and the parents need to know that too. And make sure they know all of the information they provide is confidential. (I am also sure that you know the rules %26amp; laws on that.)
I would advertise at local schools, gyms, just about any and everywhere. We all have to buy groceries! LOL! Even an add in your local newspaper. Maybe a Health Food store also.
I have some forms that you could use if you are intrested. You could change them to suit your needs.
I hope I have been of some help to you and not rambled on too long! Once again, I love your idea!
Best wishes to you!!!!!!
Elvn
ps - If you would like for to get the forms to you - post a comment and we will work out a way to do it w/out plastering our emails out here.I'm a personal trainer and thinking of starting a program for children.. Any opinions/advice?
You a very welcome! Like I said, if I can be of anymore help feel free to email me.
Good luck!
Dancing kids love music and movement you dont have to be great try tap dancing irish or scottish hip hop etc yoga/ anything except cross country (you can smoke to many cigs on the way round!)
That's really nice.I think that you should pass out flyers with a time,and date and all the information you have given us,and have them write their own interests,and make sure they bring their parents to meet you so if they are intrested they can totally get a fit schedule.The first meeting should be free.Just to discuss everything to them and the parents.The first few time you could do fun,and free activities like going to the park play soccer,tag,or whatever.You can Make them dance to some kids hip pop.They love that:).Or simple things like that that are free,but fun.Then you can try to do a fund raiser or something so that they can go out selling like homemade cookies or something %26lt;%26lt;that also will help with walking,and stuff,and like you said its only for 1-2 times a week you dont really need alot of money,so whatever they raise can go to something more fun like renting a FUN pool,or whatever you have to pay for.
Swimming, Races, Sports, Games that keep them moving, etc
My questionS for all of you is do you think this is something people would be interested in??
I would have to charge each participant a fee to cover the costs of the places we may have to rent/reserve (swimming pool) and I would like to buy prizes/rewards and healthy snacks. What would be a reasonable cost??
Other than the activities I listed can you think of anything else?
I was thinking of holding our meetings at a park, do you have any other suggestions?
And last, If I decide to do this where would be the best places to advertise?
Thanks in advance, please be completely honestI'm a personal trainer and thinking of starting a program for children.. Any opinions/advice?
First let me say this ... Kudos to you for the idea!!!
As a parent, and a youth Cheerleading Coach, I feel that it is a wonderful idea! You may ask other trainers that you know, (or friends %26amp; fellow students, even parents who like your idea), if they would be interested in helping you. I am coaching 14 girls between grades 5 - 8, and they can be a little trying at times. I do have an assistant coach but ... she is not much help. You must have patience and understanding.
:-)
I remember being outside all the time as a child, (and teenager), and some kids today REALLY need some direction away from the television, games and internet. So your idea is great! And I do think that parents would be interested in your program.
If you are thinking of holding your ';meetings'; at the park, why not pitch the idea to your park district. They may even help you to fund the program. And there are other organizations that you can go to and ask for donations to help support the program. Your local American Legion Post is one good place to go. (I am a member of the Women's Auxillary @ the American Legion in my area.) One of the things that they are there for is community support. Your idea is something that they may be willing to help you with. (In most Posts there are 3 units, regular Vet's units, Sons of the American Legion [S.A.L.], and the Women's Auxillary). If you do get this program underway, find out when all 3 meetings are held and go to all 3 and ask them to support your cause.
I charge $30 per girl for cheerleading as we are not affiliated with the school. We are affiliated with the Youth Football program. The school does not fund either program in anyway.We hold several fundraisers throughout the season. You wouldn't have that option. That is why I made the suggestions above. But you will have to charge some type of fee ... and that would depend on how many participants you have. You are performing a service therefore there has to be a fee even if you are donating your time, such as I do. And in a way, you are kind of being a part-time ';babysitter'; for some parents. That is just reality.
I would suggest meeting 3 times a week and also giving some nutrition tips to the kids, in the form of ';newsletters'; to parents. This is something that you will have to plan in advance and give a calendar of events to the parents. You could attach the nutrition tips to that.
The events that you are thinking of sound great also. Maybe a water balloon fight or something of that nature to be included. I still like a good water balloon fight and I am 37! Something that appeals to the kids. Dancing is great exercise also. Kids love music and dancing no matter what age they are! You could let them bring some music that they like and play DJ while they dance, and you should dance with them! I use this as a type of warm-up before beginning practice and the girls love it.
You will also need to have emergency contact information, a form giving you permission to seek medical treatment for the kids should the need arise. You also need to make sure on the form that is signed by the parents that you are not responsible for thier medical costs or liable for thier injuries. You will need to know allergies and/or other medical conditions they may have and if they are on any medications. I am sure that you are certified in CPR and the parents need to know that too. And make sure they know all of the information they provide is confidential. (I am also sure that you know the rules %26amp; laws on that.)
I would advertise at local schools, gyms, just about any and everywhere. We all have to buy groceries! LOL! Even an add in your local newspaper. Maybe a Health Food store also.
I have some forms that you could use if you are intrested. You could change them to suit your needs.
I hope I have been of some help to you and not rambled on too long! Once again, I love your idea!
Best wishes to you!!!!!!
Elvn
ps - If you would like for to get the forms to you - post a comment and we will work out a way to do it w/out plastering our emails out here.I'm a personal trainer and thinking of starting a program for children.. Any opinions/advice?
You a very welcome! Like I said, if I can be of anymore help feel free to email me.
Good luck!
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Dancing kids love music and movement you dont have to be great try tap dancing irish or scottish hip hop etc yoga/ anything except cross country (you can smoke to many cigs on the way round!)
That's really nice.I think that you should pass out flyers with a time,and date and all the information you have given us,and have them write their own interests,and make sure they bring their parents to meet you so if they are intrested they can totally get a fit schedule.The first meeting should be free.Just to discuss everything to them and the parents.The first few time you could do fun,and free activities like going to the park play soccer,tag,or whatever.You can Make them dance to some kids hip pop.They love that:).Or simple things like that that are free,but fun.Then you can try to do a fund raiser or something so that they can go out selling like homemade cookies or something %26lt;%26lt;that also will help with walking,and stuff,and like you said its only for 1-2 times a week you dont really need alot of money,so whatever they raise can go to something more fun like renting a FUN pool,or whatever you have to pay for.
Where can I find a website to get personal life advice?
I've been feeling pretty lost lately, and I'd like to find a place online where I can ask for advice from a friendly and insightful group of people. I have a couple of issues in mind ranging from family to the job hunt to health... Maybe an active discussion board or something similar? Any suggestions? Thank you so much.Where can I find a website to get personal life advice?
Its not safe to do personal website things because if you rely on people you don't know then when they suddenly don't want to help you anymore they can leave whenever they want. Talk to someone you trust and would rely on easily.Where can I find a website to get personal life advice?
why your feeling lost?think about it.talk it out to your close friend.go to a councilling center.evey thing will be ok.answer is with in you.do some yoga and relax.
you can contact me
Its not safe to do personal website things because if you rely on people you don't know then when they suddenly don't want to help you anymore they can leave whenever they want. Talk to someone you trust and would rely on easily.Where can I find a website to get personal life advice?
why your feeling lost?think about it.talk it out to your close friend.go to a councilling center.evey thing will be ok.answer is with in you.do some yoga and relax.
you can contact me
Im 24 weeks pregnant (relationship issue) i need your personal opinions/advice please. Anything?
(This only happened once) Just lastnight me and my boyfriend were making love, He couldnt keep it up after like 10 minutes or less, he said he was 'stressed' from the army. In my opinion, I love it, I need it, im 6 months pregnant, I want it more than usual, and around once every 2 or 3 days we make love. He does work hard, it just got me angry with him lastnight, saying ';well you mineswell just cheat on me'; Which I know he would never, but my mind thinks he's going to turn into one off those 'dogs' and im scared shitless to stay with him, I dont want him to hurt me and our child. He was crying and couldnt sleep without me, so he always chased me to come to sleep, when i wasnt tired.. I just feel digusted, I mean we've always use to make love all the time without him dieing like that.. doesnt make me feel good of myself, he calls and calls from work, we live together aswell.. and im nicely talking about leaving him, before things get worse.. he says he needs me, he doesnt like what im suggesting, your scared for nothing, I love you, stop throwing that ******* image on me, you know im a better man, you have to realize im human, im not a robot.. It pisses me off cause I dont ask for anything, and when I need love, its been hard to get it.. Im fustrated, and thinking the worst. He does prove he loves me always, and he's always home. I just feel so ugly, hes says no your my beautiful baby. Now im not asking everyday, at least when I need it most and when that 'died down' part happened, I feel like I sucked, or im not attractive anymore. He says its not you, blah blah blah.. and if I don't leave him I feel like i'll be negative, and bitchy towards him
Am I being to harsh? Am I wanting to leave him for the wrong reason? Am I fussing, and fustrated for nothing?
Thanks for your time, greatly appreciated!!Im 24 weeks pregnant (relationship issue) i need your personal opinions/advice please. Anything?
This has nothing to do with you personally... but I have to say it '; poor guy';. He not only sounds stressed with work, but then when he wants to relax a bit- it sounds like your crawling all over him. Men stress too- and when they do.... it's easy for them to lose the ';moment';. It's very natural. I realize that your pregnant.... but you guys are supposed to be a team here- work together, don't give up just because you didn't get what you wanted. You may not ask for much ( like you said) but it sounds like he truely gives a lot. I don't know your situation with the whole cheating thing either- like if he has before or whatever, But just cause he doesn't want to make love with you at the drop of a dime, doesn't mean that he's runnin around on you. I think that you are really asking a lot and being a preggo-zilla.... which can be tough sometimes cause we are also fighting with crazy-*** hormones all of the time. All that I am saying is back off a bit- give him some room to breathe, he's there and helping you- that's what truely matters, and it sounds as if he really does love you. CONGRATS on being a mommy by the way- and GOOD LUCK girl!!!! :)Im 24 weeks pregnant (relationship issue) i need your personal opinions/advice please. Anything?
You both sound stressed and insecure in this relationship. I think it would be a good idea to talk to a counselor to gain some perspective and give your baby a chance to have two functioning parents.
I think you are over reacting, and all you will do is to push him away and then he will truly be chating. Relax, men also get tired
Yes you are being harsh and over reacting.
Grow up. Life ( even when pregnant ) is not all about you. How do you think your poor boyfriend feels. Let me give you hint, guys don't exactly feel great about themselves when they have a failure like that.... and how do you react? You yell at him and make him feel like crap. Not to mention being pissed at him for stuff in your mind and crap that he has never done.
He admitted he was stressed out and dealing with a lot. Give the poor guy a break! Perhaps if you want a more loving relationship you should take some time to help him out... in stead of always expecting him to be there for you on your every demand. He's a human being, not a battery operated toy!
I think you are completely over-reacting. It happened only one time. ONE time he couldn't keep it up. Most likely he was really tired or stressed out from work. It happens. It doesn't mean he doesn't find you attractive. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you. It doesn't mean he doesn't want to have sex. It just means his body was exhausted and he needed to rest that night. That's it. It happens. Don't leave him just because he couldn't keep it up one time. That does make you seem really bitchy. You are being way, way too harsh. And it sounds like you have no reason to leave him at all. He sounds like a good guy who just happened to have a hard day. Cut him some slack.
YOU ARE PREGNANT!! YOU WILL THINK CRAZY!! BT DONT LEAVE HIM FOR SOMETHING YOU ';THINK MIGHT HAPPEN';...CUZ what will you think after you leave him and you were wrong? you will regret it and it will not be the same...get a phuckin dildo you horn ball!!
it's very easy to feel an amazing mix emotions while you're pregnant. but to me it sounds like your boyfriend is an incredible man and to leave him because of something so silly would be insane on your behalf. there are so many women out there who have no one to help them, love them, tell them they're beautiful when they're pregnant. why would you want to be in that position. men can not always remain aroused. if they are stressed, tired, sick, ect then they can have issues. just because you want to make love all the time doesn't mean that he does. how would you feel if he wanted to have sex and you didn't so he said all those things to you and wanted to leave you because of something so trivial? relationships are about a lot more than sex. i know that your hormones are out of whack and that you're feeling less than attractive sometimes with your new baby belly but surprisingly enough most men really enjoy the way their girlfriends look when pregnant. don't take for granted having a great man.
I'll probably get thumbs down for this, but it seems like your pregnancy hormones are making you overreact a bit. He seems to really love you, and I know how you feel because I thought about leaving my boyfriend too. I didn't think he was going to own up to the responsibilities of being a father, but boy did he prove me wrong! :) He loves you, it's so obvious. Don't be so paranoid and worried. He seems to be here for the long haul.
As far as the sex goes...guys have bad days with it just like we do. It's normal for a guy to have problems getting it ';Up'; if he's stressed out. You say you NEED sex, but maybe he has things going on in his head that he can't express and might not be in the mood to have sex. Why don't you ask him how he's feeling and be real with him. But, trust me sex isn't everything. My man would rather cuddle on the couch because we're at the point in our relationship where being intimate and affectionate with our clothes on is more important to him than anything. Grant it, I like sex - but since I've become pregnant my sex drive has gone totally done. None of the right buttons work anymore.
If he doesn't want to have as much sex, why don't you have him help take care of you? Or, take care of yourself. I do from time to time. You need him around. He's a good guy, and he seems very excited to become a daddy.
Wow. I realize that hormones go haywire, but wow! Let me get this right. You know he's not cheating. He shows his love for you all the time. He's home all the time. He just didn't perform a little and you want to leave him? I think once the pregnancy is over and you look back at all this, you will realize what a mistake you are making. Hormones or not, grow up.
Hey sweetie, I understand what your going through.
My husbands in the Marine Corps and one of the last times we were making love before he deployed it just... stopped. I felt so awful %26amp; ugly like he couldn't even keep it up for me. But it really isn't us sweets, sometimes something more is going on, for us it was that he was so worried about leaving me alone %26amp; pregnant.For your guy, he's probably telling the truth about it being stress. Your hormones are kind of high %26amp; out of whack right now, so it could make you feel ways you wouldn't normally. So, I wouldn't leave him yet or you might end up regretting it after you have the baby... Wait it out, from what your saying I really don't think he's going to hurt you or your child. Not all soldiers become abusive.
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omg your horomoes are out of whack!! its ok honey men have trouble working under pressure its perfectly normal just give him some time and try not to come off too hard if u want sex be sublte about it some men are not like a light switch cant just turn them on when u feel like it.. try to set the mood a lil better, candles, music, take turns giving each other massages ect ect.. good luck
Am I being to harsh? Am I wanting to leave him for the wrong reason? Am I fussing, and fustrated for nothing?
Thanks for your time, greatly appreciated!!Im 24 weeks pregnant (relationship issue) i need your personal opinions/advice please. Anything?
This has nothing to do with you personally... but I have to say it '; poor guy';. He not only sounds stressed with work, but then when he wants to relax a bit- it sounds like your crawling all over him. Men stress too- and when they do.... it's easy for them to lose the ';moment';. It's very natural. I realize that your pregnant.... but you guys are supposed to be a team here- work together, don't give up just because you didn't get what you wanted. You may not ask for much ( like you said) but it sounds like he truely gives a lot. I don't know your situation with the whole cheating thing either- like if he has before or whatever, But just cause he doesn't want to make love with you at the drop of a dime, doesn't mean that he's runnin around on you. I think that you are really asking a lot and being a preggo-zilla.... which can be tough sometimes cause we are also fighting with crazy-*** hormones all of the time. All that I am saying is back off a bit- give him some room to breathe, he's there and helping you- that's what truely matters, and it sounds as if he really does love you. CONGRATS on being a mommy by the way- and GOOD LUCK girl!!!! :)Im 24 weeks pregnant (relationship issue) i need your personal opinions/advice please. Anything?
You both sound stressed and insecure in this relationship. I think it would be a good idea to talk to a counselor to gain some perspective and give your baby a chance to have two functioning parents.
I think you are over reacting, and all you will do is to push him away and then he will truly be chating. Relax, men also get tired
Yes you are being harsh and over reacting.
Grow up. Life ( even when pregnant ) is not all about you. How do you think your poor boyfriend feels. Let me give you hint, guys don't exactly feel great about themselves when they have a failure like that.... and how do you react? You yell at him and make him feel like crap. Not to mention being pissed at him for stuff in your mind and crap that he has never done.
He admitted he was stressed out and dealing with a lot. Give the poor guy a break! Perhaps if you want a more loving relationship you should take some time to help him out... in stead of always expecting him to be there for you on your every demand. He's a human being, not a battery operated toy!
I think you are completely over-reacting. It happened only one time. ONE time he couldn't keep it up. Most likely he was really tired or stressed out from work. It happens. It doesn't mean he doesn't find you attractive. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you. It doesn't mean he doesn't want to have sex. It just means his body was exhausted and he needed to rest that night. That's it. It happens. Don't leave him just because he couldn't keep it up one time. That does make you seem really bitchy. You are being way, way too harsh. And it sounds like you have no reason to leave him at all. He sounds like a good guy who just happened to have a hard day. Cut him some slack.
YOU ARE PREGNANT!! YOU WILL THINK CRAZY!! BT DONT LEAVE HIM FOR SOMETHING YOU ';THINK MIGHT HAPPEN';...CUZ what will you think after you leave him and you were wrong? you will regret it and it will not be the same...get a phuckin dildo you horn ball!!
it's very easy to feel an amazing mix emotions while you're pregnant. but to me it sounds like your boyfriend is an incredible man and to leave him because of something so silly would be insane on your behalf. there are so many women out there who have no one to help them, love them, tell them they're beautiful when they're pregnant. why would you want to be in that position. men can not always remain aroused. if they are stressed, tired, sick, ect then they can have issues. just because you want to make love all the time doesn't mean that he does. how would you feel if he wanted to have sex and you didn't so he said all those things to you and wanted to leave you because of something so trivial? relationships are about a lot more than sex. i know that your hormones are out of whack and that you're feeling less than attractive sometimes with your new baby belly but surprisingly enough most men really enjoy the way their girlfriends look when pregnant. don't take for granted having a great man.
I'll probably get thumbs down for this, but it seems like your pregnancy hormones are making you overreact a bit. He seems to really love you, and I know how you feel because I thought about leaving my boyfriend too. I didn't think he was going to own up to the responsibilities of being a father, but boy did he prove me wrong! :) He loves you, it's so obvious. Don't be so paranoid and worried. He seems to be here for the long haul.
As far as the sex goes...guys have bad days with it just like we do. It's normal for a guy to have problems getting it ';Up'; if he's stressed out. You say you NEED sex, but maybe he has things going on in his head that he can't express and might not be in the mood to have sex. Why don't you ask him how he's feeling and be real with him. But, trust me sex isn't everything. My man would rather cuddle on the couch because we're at the point in our relationship where being intimate and affectionate with our clothes on is more important to him than anything. Grant it, I like sex - but since I've become pregnant my sex drive has gone totally done. None of the right buttons work anymore.
If he doesn't want to have as much sex, why don't you have him help take care of you? Or, take care of yourself. I do from time to time. You need him around. He's a good guy, and he seems very excited to become a daddy.
Wow. I realize that hormones go haywire, but wow! Let me get this right. You know he's not cheating. He shows his love for you all the time. He's home all the time. He just didn't perform a little and you want to leave him? I think once the pregnancy is over and you look back at all this, you will realize what a mistake you are making. Hormones or not, grow up.
Hey sweetie, I understand what your going through.
My husbands in the Marine Corps and one of the last times we were making love before he deployed it just... stopped. I felt so awful %26amp; ugly like he couldn't even keep it up for me. But it really isn't us sweets, sometimes something more is going on, for us it was that he was so worried about leaving me alone %26amp; pregnant.For your guy, he's probably telling the truth about it being stress. Your hormones are kind of high %26amp; out of whack right now, so it could make you feel ways you wouldn't normally. So, I wouldn't leave him yet or you might end up regretting it after you have the baby... Wait it out, from what your saying I really don't think he's going to hurt you or your child. Not all soldiers become abusive.
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omg your horomoes are out of whack!! its ok honey men have trouble working under pressure its perfectly normal just give him some time and try not to come off too hard if u want sex be sublte about it some men are not like a light switch cant just turn them on when u feel like it.. try to set the mood a lil better, candles, music, take turns giving each other massages ect ect.. good luck
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