Help with a personal problem ! (advice)?

so im getting to an age where im getting sexual and i need help this embarrassing but i promised this boy that this Friday was going to be the day i lose my virginity and i want to so please don't write say no your not ready but its that lets be real my whole is too little i cant fit my own finger in there how can he fit his dick in there how can i fix that? and im pretty hairy and i don't like to shave with a razor im just scared so how do i fix that?





please help and don't make fun please ! ! ! ! Help with a personal problem ! (advice)?
Well losing your virginity is a big step, just remember that you can't get it back so make sure this is the guy you want to lose it to.


If he understands, he shouldn't care if you are hairy down there, he wants to pleasure you.


But if you really want to, then you can shave. It might be a little course down there, so you might feel a bit uncomfortable for the first few times of shaving. If you don't like the feeling, you can just let it grow again or keep shaving.


Since you can't fit your finger in there, keep practising for a few days. And if it still isn't working, tell him to go really gentle for you so it will go in. Make sure he isn't going intense on you, or it's going to hurt a lot. Make sure you are wet aswell so it won't be so dry and course to get in.


I hope I helped.


Good luckHelp with a personal problem ! (advice)?
well if you dont shave then at least trim it up gross and only you can tell if youre ready so dont let anyone else try and talk you out of this if its what you want. okey dokey so virgin girls (and sometimes girls can be virgins and not have this) have whats called a hymen to keep things out of the vagina but lets stuff out i.e. menstrual juices and what not, this is why you think your hole is to small because you have your hymen intact, the dudes penis will break the hymen and get in, i cant promise you it wont be painful though good luck
Surprisingly, as clumsy as I am, I have never cut myself with a razor down there, opposed to my legs, which always get cut up. It's more hardy down there than you think, lol. You could try using a beard trimmer, or if that's too scary, just trim with scissors. And as for the size down there, just work it up to using two, three, then four fingers. That's the simplest thing I can think of. I guess you could also try sticking small, long objects in there and rotating them.
Of course my first reaction is to say don't do it!!!! I have no idea how old you are but if you are asking questions like this it can't be very old. Plus I hope the guy is more than just ';this boy.';


All that aside, if you are sure you want to do it, then the simple answer is, it stretches. It will be sore and it might hurt, but nothing will rip. Please use protection. I don't care what he says. And he very well might tell you all kinds of stuff like ';I can't feel anything with a condom on'; or one of my favorites, ';I can't have kids.'; Both of which are HUGE lies. Protect yourself above everything.


PS don't worry about the hair.
first of all before you do anything get on birth control, you can go to a clinic and no one has to know, not even your parents





second, the hole will open, you may bleed but it won't hurt that bad, just be ready for a little blood. make sure you're ';turned on'; first that will help a little... natural lube





and if your worried about the hair you can either use nair or get a wax...that is if your old enough to drive your self somewhere to buy it...
use a nice hair removin lotion 4 ur hairs or any rhin like dat except a razor if u dont like razors


n now about dat little pinky


don worry abt that


it woud b painfull in any case when its first time


u just have to b in control when ur doin it


by that i mean stay on top of him while ur insertin da dick inn


do it ur self in a way dat he is not in a position to force his dick inn


use a good water base lubricant


most important make it a great occasion by innovation


a comfortable place wid luvly eatin n drinkin stuff


will serve the purpose


also make him n urself believe dat ur makin urself ready for sumthin great n pleasureable cummin up in future


best of luck n do lemme know about the proceedins when ur over wid it


tcn lots o luv



okay FIRST of all, i believe your probaly either a middle schooler or even maybe a freshmen or sophmore in highschool. either way this seems really NOT safe. only because your worrying about all the wrong things. did you ever care to think if maybe you could get PREGNANT? or STDS? instead of wondering how to make it more comfortable for HIM? are you kidding me. you sound quite immature from your blog, so i guess and i BELIEVE that you shouldn't fall into peer pressure. and if your not ready which you aren't in ALL cases, i say you should wait when your hormones aren't so all over the place. and stop thinking about what others might say if you bail. THIS IS YOUR LIFE HERE.
Well. For the hair there is something out there called Nair. It gets rid of hair with out shaving. And for the size problem, just take it slow. Ease it in little by little. I think you should hold off, considering you're appearantly getting to that age, but i know how real life is. All i can hope is that you use protection, NO MATTER WHAT!
Males and females were meant to have sex with each other and the vagina will stretch.





Buy some wax made for the bikini area.





Make sure you protect yourself. It only takes once to get pregnant and even if he ';looks'; clean, he may have an STD. Make sure that is a risk you're willing to take, because herpes and AIDS are incurable.
Ok. First we will start with the hair. Get a waxing. Simple. Next we'll deal with the tightness. It will hurt a little but as long as he uses a lubed condom it will be fine. Start to use tampons and that should loosen you up a little. Make sure he wears a condom though. Hope this helps,





Happy *******,





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Well Then having sex for YOU


is gunna HURT LIKE HELL.





you have to start ';training'; your vagina


by way of masturbation.





He's gunna pop your cherry and when you bleed he's gunna FREAK so let him know.








and for shaving, just TRY to keep the blades away from your clitoris. And use gentle strokes and do it lightly so that you dont bleed.








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it will probably hurt the first time you do it but trust me it will fit ...thats what are bodies are made for like to reproduce and stuff. but if u dont wanna shave then dont but ur other choice would to get waxed but i dunnno how painful that will be or you could trim with scissors...hope i could help...good luck =]
you shouldn't have to promise any dude that he's worth your virginity, let alone giving him a date. sorry i'm saying what you don't want to hear. but it's the truth. trust me, if he's the right dude, you wouldn't worry about you being hairy down there.
how about if you get knocked up? i don't think the pubic hair will matter to the doctor they will shave you in 9 months.





oh and don't worry the baby's head will force your little slit to open wide like the grand canyon babe.
you sound very young %26amp; it's probably not a good idea if you lose your virginity.. what if you got pregnant? I mean you have to be 13-15, not old enough to care for a child. Plus his dick is probably the size of your pinky
be prepared to be in pain the 1st time some serious tearing of the walls will be going on. As for shaving you really don't need to.
Is this a Joke? You cant even spell ';HOLE'; much less put something in yours. Enjoy the AIDS he gives you.





P.S. Your a whore!!!
Seriously, it sounds like you are not ready to have sex. You should rethink it, really.
you cant be serious?? If you need to ask these questions then you need to keep your legs closed.


I'm sad for you right now!!
If you don't know these things, you're not ready. Please don't rush into it.. I know you want to, you feel ready, and I can sympathize with your raging hormones. But you will really regret it if you don't wait until you are at least prepared. You have to know everything about what you are getting into. It doesn't matter whether you promised this boy anything or not, it's your right to say no.





Also, I'd like to warn you that if you're not ready the whole experience is going to suck and most likely be very painful and embarrassing.. you don't have to wait that long but at least do yourself a favour and either do tonnness of research on protection and preparation, or (preferably) put it off till you're a bit more mature.
Damn already. Just use protection kids and have fun. It's like shaving your arm pit hairs if you have any.
What's the rush?


You can get a wax down there and it will fit.
Well the first time u need to break your ';cherry'; which is a flap of skin yada yada thats y ur finger dosent fit nd it will work out if u go through with it..
I know you dont want to hear it, but, you are not mature enough for sex or the possible repercussions of it-
Go with the flow... no one can give you an advice for something you're about to experience yourself. So just relax :)
i can help.
wot is the world coming to!!!!!






first and foremost, how old are you?
I agree with cupid girl. Sorry but its true. You will regret it!
haha i hope u get STD
let him beat it up u will like italot if he do a good job