Saturday, July 31, 2010

Why do we ask strangers on the internet for advice on personal problems we would normaly keep to our self?

Coz no one else will answer the question or help and we'd like to stop feeling alone on the issue maybe or don't want to burden someone we know with it. Maybe.Why do we ask strangers on the internet for advice on personal problems we would normaly keep to our self?
because its safe and its not so embarrassing. also so many points of view.Why do we ask strangers on the internet for advice on personal problems we would normaly keep to our self?
we do that because sometimes we need an advice from a total stranger. it about the need to get a picture from the outside of a situation. also the fact that we can't see each other's face and reaction it's a thing that makes us ...';let it all out';. i think it's good for the mind and soul because this way u get a glimpse of how others think and feel about something. it's up to you to make the right decizion
Specifically cause you know that what you say cant be repeated to the person involved... we dont know who you are... so its like we are your best mates and we cant stab you in the back...its a great idea...
It's always easier to tell a complete stranger your deepest secrets and feelings because you have nothing to lose with them. You have no stake in a complete stranger knowing your buisness. It is sad that we can't share these things with our loved ones though
because they dont know us,see us and its easier sometimes than asking a friend,sometimes they have great answers,sometimes they are honest with us even if it is hurtful.
i think that is a personal question which you should keep private
but if we keep it with ourself then things will remain unchange as we ourself will not give proper advice %26amp; we ask unknown as we can be free to them everything as we r unknown so do they
Dunno ! may be because this way nobody knows us, and it does not hurt what other person thinks about u.


The sense os insecurity does not exists here ! May be I said !


As far as myself is concerned I do not ask anytime, never ever did or dared to as I don't like anybody to hear what my heart or mind says !!!
First, you may be curious what advice strangers will give you, and whether it would be useful.





Secondly, it may not be easy to talk to friends as you risk them spreading your problems to others and before long, everybody you know seem to talk/laugh/sneer behind your back.





Thirdly, strangers over the internet are readily available, at the click of the mouse. Whereas friends may not be free, or may not have time to lend a listening ear.
people in their right mind don't
Because on the net, there are a lot of true people who gives good advice based on their experiences. And not only that we feel safe sometimes talking to strangers, even though they say, don't talk to strangers... and in my experience you feel relieved when telling strangers on the net about problems...
Because it helps to get other people's perspectives on things. Plus you'll find it's easier to speak to a stranger about your darkest secrets rather than the people close to you. They won't necessarily judge you and even if they do, you don't know them so it doesnt impact you as much.
To get a totally neutral response.


If you ask your friends, relatives, and neighbors, their answers may be skewed towards not causing a rift.


If you ask an anonymous stranger, they'll be more than happy to tell you an honest answer, espacially is it means that they get to tell you what an *hole you are!


You would normally keep a question to yourself because you'd be embarrased to ask someone you know. That's no problem here!
Because they have no idea who you are and can give you an answer without judging you.
For some,we would like to know that were not the only ones out here with problems, some just don't know what to do to solve there problems, have no one to talk to and need help. And for some it's a opinion poll to see if they did the right thing.
Once you come in contact then he or she is no more a STRANGER...... a problem is a problem when it is only with you...... Just share it with others you get a SOLUTION.....





bye.... now NO STANGER....... good friends.
MANY PEOPLE ARE PROBABLY WONDERING THE SAME QUESTIONS WE ARE, AND WHY NOT GET ADVICE FROM STRANGERS. SOME OF THEM REALLY KNOW WHAT THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT AND GIVE GOOD ADVICE, AND HAVE PROBABLY WENT THROUGH THE SAME SITUATIONS WE ARE ASKING ABOUT.
well i suppose that when we have hard questions and personal ones ,,it isnt always easy to ask those closest to us ,,i think that someone answering questions honestly from the outside not knowing us ,,gives us many perspectives to look over , think about ..here we get answers that we may not want to hear but true honest answers ,,clear cut to the point ,,sometimes its exactly what we need !!!
heck if someone asks my oppinion on here or in ';real'; life, i'll give it, i dont shy away from it if its asked.. lol..
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Because they are strangers...
cause noone judging!!
anonymity
because sometimes they have been through some of the same things we have. and we don't feel intimidated.

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