Personal Sexual Advice Needed (Mature Answers Please!)?

Hi,


I promise I'm not a tween or a spammer trying to clog up the women's health section for laughs...i really need advice. I'm sorry if it's too personal, but i thought i'd find some good advice here.





I've been physically involved with a man for a couple years now, I feel that he may be getting bored with our intimacy because he recently has been asking to ejaculate on different parts of my body, including my face.


I'm really uncomfortable with that idea personally, and though I've told him that and he doesn't seem ';upset'; per say...he continues to ask. not necessarily in a ';pushy'; way, but enough to make me feel guilty about not letting him, since it seems to be something he really wants to try.





am I overreacting? or am I wrong to feel guilty?


though he's not really forcing me to do anything, I still feel very unsettled with it always being in the back of my mind, and I don't really know what to do anymore as rejecting him just makes me feel guilty but doing it is something i know I wouldn't be comfortable with at all.





any advice?Personal Sexual Advice Needed (Mature Answers Please!)?
I agree with the others, you should by no means feel guilty. There is no harm in asking for something but if he pushes it to far let him know. A lot a men think it is hot to see a good looking girl, especially their girlfriend, wife, etc, with THEIR **** on there face, not a clue as to WHY they think this is hot. But no you should never feel guilty for not doing it, our bodies were not made to *** on. Maybe you could try doing something else like giving him a super ******** or something, I think my boyfriend would rather have a ******** sometimes over sex. Good luck!Personal Sexual Advice Needed (Mature Answers Please!)?
If your not comfortable with it just tell him that, compare it with something like '; Okay but you need to take this 12 inch dildo in the butt then lick it clean'; I bet he'll shut the hell up after that, if not then you know the Man is screwed in the head and bail fast.





You have to be comfortable and relaxed, to achieve your wanting desires, he only needs to be present to achieve his, open communication provides this , try new things only if both of you are comfortable with the ideal of the scenario asked. Your not in this case , move on ask him do provide you with one of your fantasies, and exchage those. again as long as it is agreeable.
I dont understand why you are not comfortable with your significant others requests. People, men and women, fantasize about all different aspects of sexuality including what you have mentioned. Its a sexual fluid, not urine. What makes the difference if it is ejaculated inside your vagina, your mouth or on your face? Dont think that because he asks that he only wants to do that, but for a change/fantasy, why not?
I'm a guy, and I think you're within your rights to refuse. He can ask, but if you say ';no';, then that should be the end of it. To me, it's the same as if you asked to pee on him in order to get some sexual thrill from it.





If at some point you change your mind, then you can tell him that it's OK, and how often, where, etc.





And I think he's been watching too many porn flicks.
he has been watching Porn most women on there take it in the face. its a turn on in a way but also kinda funny to see your womans face painted white. lol on the other hand i havent done that to my wife altough she would probably love it. Honey im home!!!!!
You should not feel guilty.. I am married and there are things that my husband has asked me to do and if I am not comfortable with it, it DOES NOT happen! You are not overreacting in any way.. Whatever makes you comfortable.. We as women always wonder what is going through those mens mind... but trust me, after 36 years, I still have no clue!
well if your man wants to try it just go ahead and try it. you never know if you will like sumthin until you try it. there might be sumthin you want to try later...and i dont think he is bored he just wants to spice things up
hi luv i wouldnt do anything your not comfortable with and if this guy realy likes you he will understand just keep telling him no and he will soon get the message and never feel guilty or maybe if you want to try it it might not be as bad as you thought
You should never feel guilty because you are absolutely within your rights to say 'NO' to something you dislike or feel uncomfortable with. What I feel is that men has this feeling of superiority complex to dominate over women. Its something psychological I think and is within all men. It may not be exhibited in a open brash way but it comes out in form of such requests. Ejaculating on a girl's face makes a man hot from this feeling of subjugating the girl. Of course seeing too much ***** films may also affect his mind leading it towards pervertism. Talk with him cooly and explain that you really don't feel like doing it, he loves you. So hopefully he will understand your feelings and adjust.