Need some advice with personal issue?

I know this girl who is friendly n full of joy,but that's just on the outside,inside she's full of sadness.She talks to me about her problems and i support her as i know its best to be a shoulder to cry on at times like this.She just broke up with her bf,and is depressed.I have some feelings for her and i have hint her on that,i suppose she knows but she pretends to not to know.If i were to confess my feelings now she might think that i supported for this reason and i would seem like a jerk.How can i help her out of this depression and should i confess or not?Pls advice.





Thanks in advance.Need some advice with personal issue?
She's lucky to have some one like you to care so much about her, if she could just know this, there won't be a reason for her to be depressed, but I think you're right, if you tell her now she might think you had this in mind all along so maybe you should wait a little. Make sure you support her through this time and I know that by the time she gets over it she will have a special feeling for you since you were there for her.


I wish you good luck and hope all this turns out in a new couple!!!Need some advice with personal issue?
shes in a time of need right now. just be her friend and be there for her. talk to her about stuff and try and comfort her. don't confess just yet because she might think your trying to take advantage of her because shes very vulnerable right now. wait till shes not as depressed and when things seem to get back to normal.
Just be her friend and hopefully she will see you for the sweetheart you are, but do keep in mind that as much as she might like you as a friend, she's probably just not interested in you.
Right - if you confess your feelings now, you'd look like a jerk. So wait until she's feeling less fragile and nearly over the guy.
don't get too close or she'll put you in the ';friend zone.';


God damn friend zone...
its probably best for both of you that you stay as the support guy for her because if shes going through all these troubles she most likely doesn't need to factor in another relationship.


then again look out for the signs of her wanting you too.


i had the same thing with breaking up with a guy then a guy friend being there for me and then i liked him but he was the rebound guy and i just wanted attention from someone because i was so down and felt unloved.


so you DON'T want that to happen to you lol.


just wait it out, keep making her smile, laugh, give her the attention she needs and make her happy because then she'll realise how you're the guy for her.
You are a gentleman. That is good. You show her support with your feelings and assistance. That is great. Just be careful in life, especially with a situation such as this. Make sure she's not using you to get her ex's attention. Make sure she's not just looking for a security blanket to hold on to until she feels different. Make sure she has feelings towards you and that she's not just using you as her shield. Once again, you are a gentleman. Maybe you can do better as well. Just be sure she's not using you as a security blanket while she attempts to get her ex's attention. Last but not least, find out why he left her. There may be a good and legitimate reason why.