Thursday, August 19, 2010

NEED ADVICE Its Personal?

I have a new boyfriend and he is 19 im nearly 16 he wants to have sex and so do i but im scared coz im a virgin wat if i do it rong?? NEED ADVICE Its Personal?
you can't do it wrong! just relax and have fun with it...than you will have a pleasurable story of the loss of your v card. but for real its a exciting thing soak up every moment and make it last....good luck=] NEED ADVICE Its Personal?
I had my first ';serious'; boyfriend at 15. He was 18. He wanted to have sex but I didn't feel I was ready. I finally gave in after we had been dating for 7 months and the day after I turned 16. It was the biggest mistake I've ever made.





Luckily, I didn't get pregnant or get any kind of STDs. I wasn't mature enough to handle either.





I wish I would have saved myself for my husband. There is something so special that we weren't able to share because we both gave up our virginity in a minute of altered thinking.





I hope you really think this over before you decide to have sex and please talk to your gynecologist. He/she hears it all the time and can help you out (they have a patient/doctor confidentiality thing so your gyno cannot tell your parents if you are scared of that).





If you do decide to have sex, use a condom,sponge, or diaphragm with nonoxyl-9 spermicide. Even if you are on birth control please use a barrier method. This will prevent you from catching any STDs. Most condoms come with this spermicide on them. Just read the box. If he has had sex already with someone else, it is a good idea for him to be tested for STDs anyway.








I hope this helps. Good luck.
Do you masturbate?





If you do, you know how you like to be touched. Show him.
he'll do all the work techniclally its his job and honestly knowing thats its just first time he will u cant rally do it wrong either...
there is no way to do it wrongg.

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