Need advice......Very personal......help???

I'm 18 and married, i love my husband and i would do anything for him. ok to make a long story short, i can't ummm orgasim, to be 100% i used too 'till my half brother raped me when i was 16, and i he is in prision for that but anyway, i feel so bad because when he wan'ts to make love to me, i sometimes don't want to because i hardly ever orgasim anymore, and i'm wondering if theres any possible advice i can have, if you don't want to answer this i'll understand, and plz for some of you out there don't make fun of me in anyway.Need advice......Very personal......help???
I would say that your problem is a psychological one and not a physical one. I would ask to visit a sexual therapist who can help you overcome this. It almost certainly stems from your past experience, the therapist will help you to seperate your past experience from your sexual relationship with your husband. They will talk to your husband about how he can help you too.Need advice......Very personal......help???
After being through a trauma like that, I'm sure it's hard to associate sex with good things, so it's hard to orgasm. I think you should try to do it by yourself by masturbating, find out what you like so you can tell your husband, and it will get better. It may also help to go to counseling, just so you can sort out your feelings on the subject.
There is a lot going on here that we may not be qualified to answer. I would see a mental health professional. For the record, many women who have never been raped never have an orgasm. But taken what you have been through I think you may need additional help.